Sunday, December 21, 2025

SOME COMMON SIGNS OF A WEAK MAN...

SOME COMMON SIGNS OF A WEAK MAN...


Who is a weak man?

Weak men are individuals who have low self-esteem, lack self-confidence, and are usually influenced by others. 


Being weak can negatively impact your character and relationships.


These are the common signs of a weak man: lack of confidence in their tone of voice, being easily manipulated, and indecisiveness with their actions.


It is easy to differentiate a strong man from a weak man from how they present themselves.


A strong man is also known as a high-value man; he is easily respected and adored by people because of how he carries himself.


THESE ARE SOME COMMON SIGNS.


1. HE IS A YES MAN 


Weak men are often not confident in their way of life, so they intend to listen and follow other people’s ways and whatever they say they will do.


As a man, you are to trust yourself; you are meant to lead by example, not to be a follower because you are worried about your insecurities.


2. HE AVOIDS CHALLENGES 


This is why ladies love a man who thrives for success because they walk up to challenges and win no matter the cost. But weak men fear a fight; they hide in their shadows and wait until the challenge ends.


3. HE PLEASES OTHERS BUT NOT TO HIMSELF 


Weak men are always on other people. This means that they are good at pleasing others rather than themselves.


Men who are strong and show no fear are always looking for ways to improve themselves and make their lives as easy and independent as possible.

Ladies usually admire independent men, and that should be your goal as a man.


4. HE PUTS OTHERS ON A PEDESTAL 


Weak men are known for worshipping others because of their status and likes; this can jeopardize their personalities and relationships.


They are very insecure about themselves and always depend on people they assume perfection, like the celebrities they admire.


As a man, you are to feel strong and fearless, face your fear, and build self-confidence; then everything will go as planned.


5. HE HAS NO BROTHERHOOD 


Weak men are like beta males; they have no real friends but are surrounded by similar weak minds. Real brotherhood comes with the courage to help one grow, and that courage is what a man needs, not some weak, dirt mind.


As a man, you need to be surrounded by power-minded men who will help you as you grow, just like the way billionaires surround billionaires.


6. HE CAN’T MAKE HIS OWN DECISION 


Ladies love a man who can take charge; with that, I mean a man who can make his own rules and regulations, not a weak man who cannot be strong enough to take care of her but depends on her or decisions from other people.


Learn to become a standard in your relationship; your woman will need that. She needs your advice; they need your strength, and they need your heart.


7. HE IS A PORNOGRAPHY ADDICT 


Pornographic addictions are a common sign of a weak man. This sign builds the mind of a weak man, and some of these reasons will have damaging effects on a man and can ruin their relationship with a lady...


What are the damaging effects of pornography in a man?


Negative feelings.

Poor focus in life.

Depression.

Destroys your inner drive.

It makes you socially awkward.

Destroys your self-confidence.

Increases aggression...etc


8. HE IS EASILY MANIPULATED 


Weak men are easily manipulated by manipulators that’s because they lack self-awareness and believe in themselves. Weak men are always used to please others, especially the higher authorities like the Alpha males.


Manipulation is a trick that many people use, even in relationships. They are a deceitful act that reduces your potential as an individual.


9. HE LACKS CONFIDENCE IN HIS VOICE 


Most of the time, a man’s voice can reveal whether he is a weak man or a strong man. It is easy to identify a weak man from his tone of voice; they show no confidence in themselves and are usually ignored and disrespected by this sign.


Showing confidence when you speak with people shows you have a strong belief in yourself and gives authority to people...


 

10. HE IS THE LOUDEST IN THE ROOM 


An old saying goes, “The loudest in the room is the weakness.” It is said that when you begin to talk so much about yourself or brag about something, it also shows dishonesty and disloyalty to yourself and the people around you.


With that said, being quiet and mysterious can help improve your value as a man and also your relationships.


11. HE REFUSES TO LEARN 


It is a great philosophy that anyone who seeks knowledge values self-improvement and, most importantly, shows no weakness. Learning is the most important habit of your life, and it should be an everyday skill.


Learning develops a clear purpose for your life and gives meaning to everything around you. Only the weak refuse to adapt to new skills and knowledge, and that is why they cannot be compared to a high-value man.

SKILLS YOU CAN ACQUIRE AS A LADY BEFORE GOING INTO MARRIAGE...

SKILLS YOU CAN ACQUIRE AS A LADY BEFORE GOING INTO MARRIAGE...


A very empowering topic!


Acquiring essential skills before marriage can enhance your personal growth, independence, and readiness for a fulfilling partnership. Here are some valuable skills to consider:


_Practical Life Skills_


1. _Cooking and meal planning_: Develop basic cooking skills and learn to plan healthy meals.

2. _Household management_: Understand how to manage a household, including cleaning, laundry, and organization.

3. _Time management_: Learn to prioritize tasks, manage your time effectively, and maintain a healthy work-life balance.

4. _Financial literacy_: Understand basic personal finance, including budgeting, saving, and investing.


_Emotional Intelligence and Relationships_


1. _Effective communication_: Develop strong communication skills, including active listening and conflict resolution.

2. _Emotional regulation_: Learn to recognize, understand, and manage your emotions in a healthy way.

3. _Boundary setting_: Understand how to set and maintain healthy boundaries in relationships.

4. _Conflict resolution_: Develop skills to resolve conflicts in a constructive and respectful manner.


_Personal Growth and Development_


1. _Self-awareness_: Cultivate self-awareness, understanding your values, strengths, and weaknesses.

2. _Goal setting_: Learn to set and achieve personal goals, enhancing your motivation and self-discipline.

3. _Resilience and adaptability_: Develop coping skills and learn to adapt to changing circumstances.

4. _Self-care and mindfulness_: Prioritize self-care, practicing mindfulness, and maintaining a healthy lifestyle.


_Career and Education_


1. _Career development_: Pursue education, training, or certifications to enhance your career prospects.

2. _Professional networking_: Build a professional network, establishing connections in your industry.

3. _Entrepreneurial skills_: Consider developing entrepreneurial skills, such as business planning, marketing, or finance.

4. _Continuing education_: Commit to lifelong learning, staying updated on industry trends and developments.


_Independent Living_


1. _Basic car maintenance_: Learn basic car maintenance skills, such as changing oil or replacing tires.

2. _Home repair and maintenance_: Develop basic home repair and maintenance skills, such as plumbing or electrical work.

3. _Self-defense_: Consider taking self-defense classes to enhance your personal safety.

4. _Emergency preparedness_: Learn basic emergency preparedness skills, such as first aid or disaster response.


Remember, acquiring these skills takes time and effort. Focus on building a strong foundation in areas that interest you the most.

QUALITIES OF A GOOD MAN...

QUALITIES OF A GOOD MAN...

Good Character is Rare


1. Kindness, empathy, and compassion are valuable traits.

2. Integrity, honesty, and loyalty are essential.

3. A good heart and positive attitude are priceless.


Financial Struggles are Temporary


1. Financial situations can change quickly.

2. Hard work and determination can lead to success.

3. Support and encouragement can help overcome challenges.


Wealth isn't Everything


1. Money can't buy happiness or love.

2. Material possessions don't guarantee fulfillment.

3. Relationships built on trust, respect, and communication last.


Good Men are hard to Find


1. Loyalty, commitment, and dedication are rare.

2. Emotional intelligence and maturity are valuable.

3. A partner who values you beyond material possessions is precious.


Focus on shared Values


1. Similar goals, interests, and passions.

2. Mutual respect, trust, and communication.

3. Emotional connection and intimacy.


Support his Goals and Aspirations


1. Encourage his passions and interests.

2. Help him overcome obstacles and challenges.

3. Celebrate his successes and progress.


Build a Strong Foundation


1. Develop emotional intimacy and connection.

2. Establish open and honest communication.

3. Foster trust, respect, and loyalty.


Remember


1. Love is not measured by bank accounts.

2. True wealth lies in relationships and experiences.

3. A good partner is worth more than gold.


Don't let temporary financial struggles cloud your judgment. Focus on the qualities that truly matter in a partner. God bless us all


WHAT EVERY WOMAN SHOULD UNDERSTAND...

WHAT EVERY WOMAN SHOULD UNDERSTAND...


1. Your biggest enemy is yourself. That enemy is the one who makes you overthink, develop a low self-esteem, make you emotionally unstable and give you headache. Love yourself from the inside first before you expect love from the outside.


2. You are not in a relationship with a man until you both clearly state it. Don't get carried away by the idea of love with a man simply because he spends time with you or treats you special


3. If you are in a relationship or marriage, demanding your man to spend time with you will not make him do so. A man willingly spends time with you because you give him peace and he enjoys your company. Attract him the same way you peacefully and warmly attracted him when he was pursuing you 


4. Mr. Right is the man who offers a conducive environment for you to be the best you. Choose your environment well 


5. Your husband will never find you if you keep fooling around with other women's husbands


6. Mr. Right can also hurt you. The difference is that Mr. Right hurts when he hurts you, he apologises, owns up to his short comings and makes effort to love you better. Love is a learning process


7. Silent treatment will not solve anything. If your man hurts you, learn to speak your hurt and teach him to love you better. The best couples have mastered the art of conflict resolution 


8. Most men don't mind being corrected. What they do mind is the tone with which you correct them. The world has been harsh towards women for years, but tone down your defensive mode and learn to communicate effectively with respect and love. You two don't have to fight and argue to look like you are addressing issues 


9. A man who is not serious about you will avoid accountability, will operate in grey areas and will hide you. You will never go far with him. Serious men like being kept accountable, they take pride in what they commit to and are not afraid of responsibilities 


10. Getting pregnant for a man will not make him serious about you. Men are serious about a woman because they have a personal vision that includes her


11. If you are not a woman who knows herself, relationships and marriages will bring you drama. Your self awareness is your personal responsibility


12. If you do know yourself and you get married to a man who doesn't know himself, he will frustrate you. Be careful in him being lost he doesn't make you lose you. When marriages go bad, the repurcations are heaviest on the woman


13. Just because you have a relationship with God or you marry someone who has a relationship with God does not mean your marriage will work. You two have to learn to relate with each other, not just with God


14. There are good men in this world, just like there are good women in this world. You will not encounter those good men if you keep entertaining the wrong ones and frequenting where the wrong ones dwell


15. During dating, if you want to see the calibre of man you are getting to know, put off sex and see if he will stay, if he is interested for more than just sex. Be careful, some men will tell you all kinds of promises to get you to bed. They are just curious about how sexing you feels like, not interested to grow with you. Once they sex you, the curiosity goes, especially after you get pregnant 


16. Relationships/marriages don't always end or struggle because of the man, sometimes you are the problem. Learn to be honest and objective to see your wrong. If you two work together, your love will grow stronger


17. An insecure man will fight everything that is good about you; from your success, your career, your beauty, your personality, your education and he will blame you for his own issues. He is the problem, not you. Don't dim your light for a man whose identity is in darkness


18. If you have a good man, don't exaggerate the wrong he has done today to the point that you forget how good he has been to you. Don't make him feel unappreciated because he didn't do as you wanted him to today. Keep your perspective and don't overreact


19. Don't be that woman who has been so damaged by wrong men that when the good man comes along you push him away


20. Before you go and share your issues with your man to your friends, share them with him. The solution lies between you two. If he is stubborn or you two still disagree, then share with someone he can be accountable to, like a true friend or a counsellor, if it gets worse, involve both your parents


21. Disagreement or a bad day in your relationship or marriage doesn't mean it is breaking apart. Keep calm. Don't panic


22. No matter how much your husband loves you, he might not see your dreams or even support you that much. You have to learn to defend and nurture your dreams even if he doesn't get it


22. Complaining and nagging will never give you the desired results, it will only push your man away from you and make him tolerate you instead of enjoy you. If you want to inspire him to do more for and with you, appreciate him, have pleasant conversations with him, be easy to talk to


23. If you don't learn how to say no, people and the world will use you and dump you 


24. Remember, there is more to life than marriage, sex and having children. You are a blessing with so much to accomplish and pursue as an individual 


25. Don't be hard on yourself. Pat yourself on the back for how far you have gone


10 COMMONSENSE ADVICE OF LOVE...

 10 COMMONSENSE ADVICE OF LOVE..


1. You don't need to check his/her phone in search for text messages from other guys/babes. Stop spoiling your mind or giving yourself hypertension unnecessarily.


2. Never beg someone to love you. You don't beg for love, you allow love to grow gradually. Do things that will make the person develop love for you gradually. Not by begging or shedding tears.


3. If your partner says he/she wants to quit the relationship, allow him/her to go. Who told you that there is no one like your partner? There are many people who are better than your partner. A better person will come into your life.


4. To avoid the pain of heart break, do not give the whole of your heart, your body and your life to someone when you fall in love with the person. Human being cannot be trusted; they can break your heart at any time.


5. Being in love does not mean that you should worship the person you are in love with.

Respect them but don't worship them. 


6. For the fact that you are in love with someone does not mean that you should ignore and disregard every other human being on earth except your lover.

That is cowardice.


7. The number one person in your life must be God and not your boyfriend/girlfriend. Don't allow love turn you into a coward.


8. Do not Love with your heart alone. Use your brain also.


9. Heartbreak is not the end of the world. It may be the open door to a happier life and a better relationship with a new partner.


10. Do not be afraid of falling in love again after a heartbreak. If a bad door did not close, a better door will not open.

BE A MAN...

 BE A MAN...


I. Never Take Your Parents For Granted. They Won't Be Around Forever.


II. When You Improve Yourself, You Improve Your Family. When You Improve Your Family, You Improve Your Community. It’s That Simple.


III. Men Who Can Control Their Lust Are Unstoppable. They Have Solved 80% Of Their Life Problems. Control Your Lust!


IV. Embarrassment Lasts A Day. Regret Lasts A Lifetime.


V. A Man Without A Purpose Will Look To Distract Himself With Cheap Pleasures.


VI. Avoid People Who Hate The Opposite Sex.


VII. Pay Attention To The Advice Of Happy Old People.


VIII. Discipline Beats Motivation Every Single Day.


IX. You're A Slave To Everyone You Feel The Need To Impress.


X. Most Unhappiness In Men Comes From A Lack Of Purpose.


XI. Advice For Young Women: Avoid Men Who Are Rude To Their Mothers.


XII. One Of The Worst Things A Man Can Be Addicted To Is Comfort.


XIII. Femininity Inspires Masculinity. Masculinity Inspires Femininity.


XIV. Life Doesn't Get Easier, You Just Get Stronger.


XV. No Man Ever Became Great By Sitting On The Sofa Watching Netflix All Day.


XVI. Men Are Happiest When They’re Building A Legacy.


XVII. Ignore Losers Who Say Life Gets Worse With Age.


XVIII. Be The Man Who Remains Calm When Everyone Else Is Losing Their Minds.


XIX. It's Better To Risk Making Mistakes Than To Take No Action At All.


XX. Laughing At A Fat Person In The Gym Is Like Laughing At A Homeless Person For Trying To Find A Job.


XXI. Spending Time In Nature Is An Elite Anxiety Remedy.


XXII. Learn How To Take Criticism Without Reacting Emotionally.


XXIII. You Become A Better Man When You Stop Watching Porn.


XXIV. You Either Fight For What You Want Or You Get What You're Given.


XXV. Always Remember That Some Men Are Only Nice Because They're Too Weak To Confront Anyone.

HOW TO LØV£ YOUR WOMAN...

HOW TO LØV£ YOUR WOMAN...


1. Play with her bréåsts, don't play with her heart.


2. Open up her heart, don't open her old wounds.


3. Keep her sêcrèts, don't keep sêcrèts from her.


4. Béåt up her problems, don't béåt her up.


5. Help her to make good judgements, don't judge her.


6. Spread her lêgs alone, don't spread sëxuãl diséåses to her.


7. Fool around with her, don't make a fool out of her.


8. Laugh with her, don't laugh at her.


9. Suck her nîpples, don't suck life and joy out of her.


10. Make her scréám in bed when making løve, don't make her scréám out of frus.tration and depre.ssiôn.


11. Silence her storms and battles, don't silence her voice and opinions.


12. Make her møån in pleasure, don't make her mourn the death of your løve.


13. Relieve her stress, don't give her stress.


14. Spank her butt cheek, don't slap her face cheek.


15. Surprise her with gifts, don't surprise her with lies.


16. Make her wët between her lêgs, don't make her eyes wet with tears.


17. Be by her side, don't sideline her.


18. Make love to her doggie st.yle, don't be a dog that chéåts on her like a community pe.nîs.


19. Make other women jealous of her by how you løve her, don't make her jealous.


20. Keep a record of all the good she deliberately does daily, not the wrong she unintentionally does occasionally.


21. Don't insult her stretch mark, stretch her vision so that she leaves a positive mark on Earth 

HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY...

 HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY...

1. Make food;

2. Sleep with him;

3. Don't ask questions;

4. Leave him alone.


HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY:

1. Be Friends

2. Companion

3. Lover

4. Beautiful

5. Charming

6. Good in the kitchen

7. Atlético

8. Electrician

9. Plumber

10. Mechanic

11. Carpenter

12. Decorator

13. Stylist

15. Poet

16. Psychologist

17. Bug zapper

18. Psychiatrist

19. Good-natured

20. A good listener

21. Organizer

22. A good father

23. Smelly

24. Empathetic

25. Cult

26. Sensitive

27. Attentive

28. Seductive

29. Smart

30. Funny

31. Creative

32. Hot

33. Strong

34. Understanding

35. Tolerant

36. Prudent

37. Ambitious

38. Capable

39. Brave

40. Determined

41. True

42. Insurance

43. Check everything

44. Punching bag

45. Lonely without friends


DON'T FORGET TO:

46. Praise often

47. Give gifts

48. Be honest

49. Opening the car door

50. Not to stress her

51. Don't look at other women.

52. Lift the toilet lid.

53. Being a computer teacher.

54. Don't snore.

55. Do not dry your feet with a towel.


AND ALSO:

56. Never forget:

* her birthday

* dating anniversary

* the anniversary of the first kiss

* the anniversary of the first time they met

*her mother's birthday

* Valentine's Day and being faithful


THEY HATE...

1. Who responds

2. Who remains silent

3. You lie to them

4. Be sincere

5. Worries

6. Who doesn't care

7. Be jealous

8. Don't be jealous


BONUS:

And never forget, even if you are right, you are wrong

MY ADVICE TO YOUTHS...

 MY ADVICE TO YOUTHS...


1. Your control of your sexual urges will be the reason you are either successful or a failure.


2. Porn and masturbation is the greatest killer of success. It stunt and destroy your brain.


3. Avoid drinking alcohol like a camel drinking water. Nothing worse than losing your senses and acting a fool.


4. Keep your standards high and don't settle for something because it's available.


5. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete.


6. No one is coming to save your problems. Your life's 100% is your responsibility.


7. You shouldn't take advice from people who are not where you want to be in life.


8. Find new ways to make money. Make money and ignore the jokers who mocks and make fun of you. 


9. You don't need 100 self-help books, all you need is action and self discipline. Be disciplined! 


10. Avoid drugs. Avoid weed. 


11. Learn skills on YouTube not wasting your time consuming shitty content on Netflix. 


12. No one cares about you. So stop being shy, go out and create your chances.


13. Comfort is the worst addiction and cheap ticket to depression. 


14. Prioritize your family. Defend them even if they stink, even if they are idiots. Cover their nakedness. 


15. Find new opportunities and learn from people ahead of you. 


16. Trust no one. Not a single person no matter how tempted. Believe in yourself. 


17. Don't wait for miracles make them happen. Yes you can't always do it alone but don't listen to the opinion of people.


18. Hardwork and determination can make you achieve anything.

Humbling yourself only takes you higher.


19. Stop waiting to discover yourself. Create YOU instead.


20. The world won't slow down for you.


21. No one owes you anything. 

22. Love your mother, protect and take care of her. Respect and love your father, make sure to make him proud!

23. Life is a single-player game. You’re born alone. You’re going to die alone. All of your interpretations are alone. You’re gone in three generations and nobody cares. Before you showed up, nobody cared. It’s all single-player.

MATURITY IS A MINDSET, NOT AGE...

 MATURITY IS A MINDSET, NOT AGE...


 HERE ARE 14 SIGNS YOU ARE MATURE :


1.... You are not scared to be alone.


2..... You realize money is not evil. Lack of money is.


3..... You know that you are your worst enemy and you are your best supporter too.


4..... You realize that life's much better when no one knows anything about you.


5...... You don't care what other people think about you anymore.


6...... You stop chasing meaningless relationships and focus on improving yourself.


7........ You focus more on the opportunity of learning than the risk of failure.


8...... You don't stress about things that are out of your control.


9..... You understand that 9-5 won't help you achieve financial freedom.


10........ You understand that you get paid based on the value you are providing.


11......... In the real world, grades aren't the only measure of value. Connections, background, and practical skills often surpass academic performance. While grades may open doors.


12........ You understand that life's much better when you focus on improving yourself rather than partying every weekend.


13....... You realize that in the end only your family and a few true friends will be there for you.


14......... You also realize that in the end, even your family and friends will leave you, only the God remains with you.


SUCCESS DEMANDS THESE 6 THINGS...

 SUCCESS DEMANDS THESE 6 THINGS...

(The Secret Formula)


 1. Hard Work 

Don't believe in luck, believe in hard work. 

Stop trying to rush the process or searching for a shortcut. 

There is none.


2. Patience 

If you are losing the patience, you are losing the battle. 

First nothing happens, then it happens slowly and suddenly all at once. 

Most people give up at stage one.


 3. Sacrifice

If you don't sacrifice for what you want, then what you want becomes the sacrifice.

Everything has its price. The question is: Are you ready to pay it for the life you desire?


4. Consistency 

Consistency is what transforms average into excellence. 

Without consistency, you will never achieve greater success.


5. Discipline 

Motivation gets you going, but discipline keeps you growing. 

There will be days when you don't “feel” like doing it. 

You have to push through those days regardless of how you feel.

 

6. Self Confidence 

Confidence is, I'll be fine if they don't like me.

HOW TO ATTRACT PEOPLE TO YOU...

 HOW TO ATTRACT PEOPLE TO YOU...


1. Be mysterious. It develops attraction towards you.


2. Be least available. Rare things are always attractive to people.


3. Be confident. It shows that you are capable of doing things in a better way.


4. Be well dressed. Your great dressing sense attracts the attention of others.


5. Smell good. Use strong perfume and deodorant to attract the attention of others.


6. Your body language should be open. It shows that you are frank and carefree.


7. Be least reactive to attract others. It will attract their attention towards you and increase your demand.


8. Don't sell yourself so easily to people. Let them make efforts to win you over because people don't appreciate things that they get easily.


9. Don't express yourself much on social media. It kills attraction.


10. Don't care what others think of you.


11. Don't be desperate when talking or messaging someone.


12. Don't be dependent. The more dependent you are, the less attention you get. Learn to say NO.


12. Be yourself. Don't change to win someone over. Change yourself to improve yourself.


13. Don't reveal everything about yourself. Revealing everything about yourself makes you the least attractive person.


14. Don't get affected if someone doesn't give you the importance you want or deserve. Always be the one to end the conversation.


15. Don't show too much interest in anyone.


16. Don't be too nice to people. People will take you for granted and you are destined to lose all the attractions. A strong sense of humor increases attractiveness as it is also one of the signs of an intelligent personality.


17. Prioritize your goal and no other person (except your family members: Husband, Wife and Children).


18. During the conversation, make eye contact with the other person and smile slightly.


19. Love yourself and never be afraid to stand up for your beliefs. Have strong opinions and be aware of trending topics and other social issues.


20. Be adventurous. Travel to amazing places and get clicks and amazing stories to post on social media. Be optimistic and take risks. Optimism gives positive vibes to people and hence they are attracted to you. By taking risks, you show that you are brave and can step out of your comfort zone if needed.


21. Be independent. Spend most of your time alone without worrying about what others think or say about you. Be a thinker and analyze things. Offer solutions to other people's problems without expecting anything in return.

Never compromise with your self-esteem. Always respect and love yourself, but remember to stay humble and polite.


22. Be ambitious. Work on your goal and focus on improving yourself.

SOME RULES TO KNOW BEFORE YOU START A RELATIONSHIP...

SOME RULES TO KNOW BEFORE YOU START A RELATIONSHIP...


1. TAKE TIME TO BUILD FRIENDSHIP.

Get to know each other.


IF THE RELATIONSHIP IS MEANT TO BE, THERE WILL BE NO RUSH.


2. DON'T SAY 'I LOVE YOU' YET.

Don't rush, be patient and get to know the person well before saying 'I love you'.


3. WATCH OUT FOR WARNING SIGNS;

Look out for red flags while you're still in the friendship level.


FIRST KNOW YOURSELF, HAVE WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR IN A MAN AND WHAT YOU CAN PUT UP WITH AND WATCH OUT FOR ALL THAT DURING YOUR FRIENDSHIP.


RED FLAGS ARE SIMPLY THE THINGS YOU CANNOT ACCEPT BASE ON YOUR PERSON AND PUT WITH IN A SPOUSE.


4. LISTEN AND BE OBSERVANT!

Many people are not been observant of the person's Attitude, Pattern, and How He relates with his family and other people outside you.


Does the man love your family just as he claims to love you?


Does any of you have dependency?.


Does he have external responsibilities he is taking care of?


BE OBSERVANT OF THE PERSON, LIFESTYLE, CHARACTER, EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE WHILE YOU ARE STILL IN YOUR FRI


NOTICE THE PATTERN OF THE SUBJECT OF THEIR CONVERSATION AND THEIR PATTERN OF PRIORITY.


5. WATCH THEIR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD.


WHEN HE PICKS OFFENSE WHEN QUESTIONED ABOUT HIS BIBLE VERSE STUDY FOR THE DAY, IT IS A WARNING SIGN.


THE TRUE LITMUS TEST TO KNOW IF HE OR SHE HAS A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD IS HOW MUCH THE PERSON SUPPORTS YOU TO BE CLOSER TO GOD!


IF HE OR SHE IS COMFORTABLE WITH YOUR PRAYERLESS LIFE, THEN THEY TOO HAVE A PRAYERLESS LIFE.


THE EXTENT HOW A PERSON PUSHES YOU TO BE CLOSER TO GOD, IS THE SAME EXTENT TO WHICH THEY HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD.


DON'T LOOK FOR AN ACT OF GODLINESS, LOOK FOR THE FRUITS OF THE HOLY SPIRIT WITH POWER MANIFESTING RESULT


6. BEWARE OF PATTERNS.

Please, take time to do a thorough background check of whoever you're intending to have a future with.


ASK QUESTIONS ON SPIRITUAL MATTERS AND FAMILY TRADITIONAL PRACTICES IN THEIR FAMILY, TRY TO VISIT THEIR HOMETOWN.


BE SPIRITUALLY DISCERNING TO BEWARE OF SPIRITUAL TRANSFERENCE.


7. DO NOT START A RELATIONSHIP IN ISOLATION.

Do not start any dating in secret.

BE ACCOUNTABLE TO SOMEONE ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP


9. PRIORITIZE.

When your relationship with God is suffering because you're in a relationship, that's a warning sign that relationship is not from God for you.


ONE SUREST WAY TO KNOW YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS GOD'S WILL FOR IS WHEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD IS GROWING FAR MUCH BETTER THAN IT WAS WHEN YOU WERE STILL SINGLE.!


10. ARE YOU IN LOVE OR YOU ARE IN NEED?

Is the person truly in love with you?

Or

They are there to use you to achieve something for themselves?.

BE WISE! BE SMART! BE CALCULATIVE ! AS YOU'RE BEEN DISCERNING.


Do they love you for who you are? Your virtues and value as a person


Do they love you for what you have acquired for yourself or what they stand to gain by being with you?