Sunday, December 21, 2025

MATURITY IS A MINDSET, NOT AGE...

 MATURITY IS A MINDSET, NOT AGE...


 HERE ARE 14 SIGNS YOU ARE MATURE :


1.... You are not scared to be alone.


2..... You realize money is not evil. Lack of money is.


3..... You know that you are your worst enemy and you are your best supporter too.


4..... You realize that life's much better when no one knows anything about you.


5...... You don't care what other people think about you anymore.


6...... You stop chasing meaningless relationships and focus on improving yourself.


7........ You focus more on the opportunity of learning than the risk of failure.


8...... You don't stress about things that are out of your control.


9..... You understand that 9-5 won't help you achieve financial freedom.


10........ You understand that you get paid based on the value you are providing.


11......... In the real world, grades aren't the only measure of value. Connections, background, and practical skills often surpass academic performance. While grades may open doors.


12........ You understand that life's much better when you focus on improving yourself rather than partying every weekend.


13....... You realize that in the end only your family and a few true friends will be there for you.


14......... You also realize that in the end, even your family and friends will leave you, only the God remains with you.


SUCCESS DEMANDS THESE 6 THINGS...

 SUCCESS DEMANDS THESE 6 THINGS...

(The Secret Formula)


 1. Hard Work 

Don't believe in luck, believe in hard work. 

Stop trying to rush the process or searching for a shortcut. 

There is none.


2. Patience 

If you are losing the patience, you are losing the battle. 

First nothing happens, then it happens slowly and suddenly all at once. 

Most people give up at stage one.


 3. Sacrifice

If you don't sacrifice for what you want, then what you want becomes the sacrifice.

Everything has its price. The question is: Are you ready to pay it for the life you desire?


4. Consistency 

Consistency is what transforms average into excellence. 

Without consistency, you will never achieve greater success.


5. Discipline 

Motivation gets you going, but discipline keeps you growing. 

There will be days when you don't “feel” like doing it. 

You have to push through those days regardless of how you feel.

 

6. Self Confidence 

Confidence is, I'll be fine if they don't like me.

HOW TO ATTRACT PEOPLE TO YOU...

 HOW TO ATTRACT PEOPLE TO YOU...


1. Be mysterious. It develops attraction towards you.


2. Be least available. Rare things are always attractive to people.


3. Be confident. It shows that you are capable of doing things in a better way.


4. Be well dressed. Your great dressing sense attracts the attention of others.


5. Smell good. Use strong perfume and deodorant to attract the attention of others.


6. Your body language should be open. It shows that you are frank and carefree.


7. Be least reactive to attract others. It will attract their attention towards you and increase your demand.


8. Don't sell yourself so easily to people. Let them make efforts to win you over because people don't appreciate things that they get easily.


9. Don't express yourself much on social media. It kills attraction.


10. Don't care what others think of you.


11. Don't be desperate when talking or messaging someone.


12. Don't be dependent. The more dependent you are, the less attention you get. Learn to say NO.


12. Be yourself. Don't change to win someone over. Change yourself to improve yourself.


13. Don't reveal everything about yourself. Revealing everything about yourself makes you the least attractive person.


14. Don't get affected if someone doesn't give you the importance you want or deserve. Always be the one to end the conversation.


15. Don't show too much interest in anyone.


16. Don't be too nice to people. People will take you for granted and you are destined to lose all the attractions. A strong sense of humor increases attractiveness as it is also one of the signs of an intelligent personality.


17. Prioritize your goal and no other person (except your family members: Husband, Wife and Children).


18. During the conversation, make eye contact with the other person and smile slightly.


19. Love yourself and never be afraid to stand up for your beliefs. Have strong opinions and be aware of trending topics and other social issues.


20. Be adventurous. Travel to amazing places and get clicks and amazing stories to post on social media. Be optimistic and take risks. Optimism gives positive vibes to people and hence they are attracted to you. By taking risks, you show that you are brave and can step out of your comfort zone if needed.


21. Be independent. Spend most of your time alone without worrying about what others think or say about you. Be a thinker and analyze things. Offer solutions to other people's problems without expecting anything in return.

Never compromise with your self-esteem. Always respect and love yourself, but remember to stay humble and polite.


22. Be ambitious. Work on your goal and focus on improving yourself.

SOME RULES TO KNOW BEFORE YOU START A RELATIONSHIP...

SOME RULES TO KNOW BEFORE YOU START A RELATIONSHIP...


1. TAKE TIME TO BUILD FRIENDSHIP.

Get to know each other.


IF THE RELATIONSHIP IS MEANT TO BE, THERE WILL BE NO RUSH.


2. DON'T SAY 'I LOVE YOU' YET.

Don't rush, be patient and get to know the person well before saying 'I love you'.


3. WATCH OUT FOR WARNING SIGNS;

Look out for red flags while you're still in the friendship level.


FIRST KNOW YOURSELF, HAVE WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR IN A MAN AND WHAT YOU CAN PUT UP WITH AND WATCH OUT FOR ALL THAT DURING YOUR FRIENDSHIP.


RED FLAGS ARE SIMPLY THE THINGS YOU CANNOT ACCEPT BASE ON YOUR PERSON AND PUT WITH IN A SPOUSE.


4. LISTEN AND BE OBSERVANT!

Many people are not been observant of the person's Attitude, Pattern, and How He relates with his family and other people outside you.


Does the man love your family just as he claims to love you?


Does any of you have dependency?.


Does he have external responsibilities he is taking care of?


BE OBSERVANT OF THE PERSON, LIFESTYLE, CHARACTER, EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE WHILE YOU ARE STILL IN YOUR FRI


NOTICE THE PATTERN OF THE SUBJECT OF THEIR CONVERSATION AND THEIR PATTERN OF PRIORITY.


5. WATCH THEIR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD.


WHEN HE PICKS OFFENSE WHEN QUESTIONED ABOUT HIS BIBLE VERSE STUDY FOR THE DAY, IT IS A WARNING SIGN.


THE TRUE LITMUS TEST TO KNOW IF HE OR SHE HAS A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD IS HOW MUCH THE PERSON SUPPORTS YOU TO BE CLOSER TO GOD!


IF HE OR SHE IS COMFORTABLE WITH YOUR PRAYERLESS LIFE, THEN THEY TOO HAVE A PRAYERLESS LIFE.


THE EXTENT HOW A PERSON PUSHES YOU TO BE CLOSER TO GOD, IS THE SAME EXTENT TO WHICH THEY HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD.


DON'T LOOK FOR AN ACT OF GODLINESS, LOOK FOR THE FRUITS OF THE HOLY SPIRIT WITH POWER MANIFESTING RESULT


6. BEWARE OF PATTERNS.

Please, take time to do a thorough background check of whoever you're intending to have a future with.


ASK QUESTIONS ON SPIRITUAL MATTERS AND FAMILY TRADITIONAL PRACTICES IN THEIR FAMILY, TRY TO VISIT THEIR HOMETOWN.


BE SPIRITUALLY DISCERNING TO BEWARE OF SPIRITUAL TRANSFERENCE.


7. DO NOT START A RELATIONSHIP IN ISOLATION.

Do not start any dating in secret.

BE ACCOUNTABLE TO SOMEONE ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP


9. PRIORITIZE.

When your relationship with God is suffering because you're in a relationship, that's a warning sign that relationship is not from God for you.


ONE SUREST WAY TO KNOW YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS GOD'S WILL FOR IS WHEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD IS GROWING FAR MUCH BETTER THAN IT WAS WHEN YOU WERE STILL SINGLE.!


10. ARE YOU IN LOVE OR YOU ARE IN NEED?

Is the person truly in love with you?

Or

They are there to use you to achieve something for themselves?.

BE WISE! BE SMART! BE CALCULATIVE ! AS YOU'RE BEEN DISCERNING.


Do they love you for who you are? Your virtues and value as a person


Do they love you for what you have acquired for yourself or what they stand to gain by being with you?

THE 48 LAWS OF POWER.

 THE 48 LAWS OF POWER.


A Book written by Robert Greene that offers a Series of Strategies for Obtaining and Maintaining Power in various situations. Here I leave you a summary of the 48 Laws:


1. Don't Outshine the Boss: Make your Superiors feel Superior. Don't expose your Talent too much or you might Trigger their Insecurity.


2.Don't Trust friends too much, use your Enemies: Friends Betray you more easily, but if you Manage to WIN an Enemy, they will be more Loyal.


3. Hide your Intentions: Keep People Off Balance so they can't anticipate your Actions.


4. Always say Less than Necessary: Silence Breeds Power, and Talking too much Reveals your Plans.


5. Protect your Reputation at all Costs: Reputation is the Cornerstone of Power.


6. Call Attention at all Costs: Be Visible to be Relevant.


7. Make others Work for you and Attribute it: Take Advantage of the Work and Effort of others to your Advantage.


8. Make others come to you: Don't Run after Others, make them Look for you.


9. Win with Actions, Never Arguments: Prove your Point through Actions, Not Words.


10. Avoid Losers and Unhappy: The Misfortune of others is Contagious; stay away from those who Bring you Down.


11. Make People Depend on you: If others Depend on you, you're in Control.


12. Disarm with Sincerity and Selective Generosity: Emotional Disarmament will give you an Edge.


13. When you ask for Help, Appeal to the Interests of Others: Appeal to what Benefits Others, not Gratitude or Compassion.


14. Introduce yourself as a Friend, act as a Spy: Learn to Extract Valuable Information from others without them Noticing.


15. Crush your Enemy Completely: Do not let your Enemy Recover, or he will seek Revenge.


16. Use Absence to Increase Respect: The Value of something Increases with Scarcity..


17. Keep Others in Suspense: Be Unpredictable, you will Confuse Others and Gain Power.


18. Do Not Isolate yourself: Loneliness Weakens you; Engage yourself in the Web of Influence.


19. Know Who You’re Dealing With: Choose Your Opponents And Partners Wisely.


20. Don't compromise with anyone: Maintain your Independence so you don't get Caught up in other People's Affairs.


21. Pretend to be a Fool to Catch the Sly: Let others think they have an Advantage over you.


22. Use the Surrender Tactic: Sometimes giving in at the Right Time gives you the Advantage.


23. Focus your Forces: Keep your Energy Focused on what really Matters.


24. Be a Master at Simulation and Disguise: Don't reveal all your cards.


25. Recreate your own identity: Be the architect of your own destiny.


26. Keep your hands clean: Make sure the responsibility for the problems falls on others.


27. Play with people's needs to create devotion: Satisfy their deep desires to earn you their loyalty.


28. Be bold in acting: Timidity is dangerous, boldness is powerful.


29. Plan everything to the end: Having a detailed plan allows you to avoid unpleasant surprises.


30. Make your accomplishments look easy: Minimize the effort you put in to make others think you have innate talent.


31. Control Other People's Options: Guide the decisions of others by giving them limited options.


32. Play with people's fantasy: Appeal to people's emotions and dreams to gain clout.


33. Discover the weaknesses of others: Identify what drives people to manipulate their actions.


34. Be rule in your behavior: Power lies in the appearance of greatness and dignity.


35. Master the art of timing: Don't rush; everything has its right time.


36. Despise what you can’t have: Don’t obsess over things that are out of your reach.


37. Create engaging spectacles: Theatrics and spectacles capture attention.


38. Think as you wish, but behave like everyone else: Do not openly defy social norms.


39. Stir the waters to catch fish: Destabilize others to make mistakes.


40. Despise free: What is free usually comes with a hidden cost.


41. Avoid imitating great men: Forge your own path instead of following in the footsteps of others.


42. Beat the shepherd and the sheep will scatter: He demolishes leaders to weaken his followers.


43. Work on the hearts and minds of others: Conquer the spirit of people to control them.


44. Disarm and anger with mirror effect: Reflect the actions of others to destabilize them.


45. Preach the need for change, but never reform too much: Radical change can generate resistance.


46. Never look too perfect: Perfection breeds envy and haters.


47. Don't exceed your goal: When you achieve what you want, retire on time.


48. Be amorphous: Be adaptable, don't limit yourself to a rigid form.


These laws are designed to handle situations of power, but it's important to consider context and personal ethics when applying them.

HOW TO GET PEOPLE ATTRACTED TO YOU

HOW TO GET PEOPLE ATTRACTED TO YOU


1. Be mysterious. It develops attraction towards you.

2. Be least available. Scarce things are always attractive to the people.

3. Be confident. It shows you are capable of doing things in a better way.

4. Be well dressed. Your great dressing sense attracts the attention of others.

5. Smell good. Use powerful perfume and deo to catch other's attention.

6. Your body language should be open. It shows you are frank and carefree.

7. Be least responsive to attract other people. This will draw their attention towards you and will increase your demand.

8. Don't sell yourself so easily to the people. Let them make efforts to win you because people don't value the things which they get easily.

9. Don't express yourself much on social media. This kills the attraction.

10. Don't care what other people think about you.

11. Don't be desperate while talking or texting to someone.

12. Don't be needy. The more needy you become, the least attention you get. Learn to say NO.

12. Be yourself. Don't change yourself to win someone. Change yourself to improve.

13.Don't reveal everything about yourself. Revealing everything about yourself makes you 'least attractive' person.

14. Don't get affected if someone is not giving you importance you want or deserve.

Always be the one to end the conversation.

15. Don't show too much interest in anyone.

16. Don't be too nice to the people. People will take you granted for it and you are destined to loose all the attractions. Strong sense of humour increases the attraction because it's also one of the signs of an intelligent personality.

17. Show priority to your goal and not any other people (expect your family members).

18. During conversation, make eye-contact with the other person and smile slightly.

19. Love yourself and never be afraid to stand up for what you believe. Be opinionated and up to date about trendy topics and other social issues.

20. Be adventurous. Travel to amazing places and have someamazing clicks and stories from there to post on social media. Be optimistic and risk-taker. Optimism gives positive vibes to people and hence they are attracted towards you. By taking the risk, you show that you are courageous and can move out from your 'comfort zone' if needed.

21. Be independent. Spend most of your time alone without giving a shit about what other think or say about you. Be a thinker and analyse the things. Provide solutions to other's problems without expecting anything in return.

Never compromise with your self-respect. Always respect and love yourself but don't forget to remain humble and polite.

22. Be ambitious. Work on your goal and focus on self-improvement.

15 SENTENCES FOR LIFE

BY AGE 40 YOU SHOULD BE SMART ENOUGH TO REALIZE THIS:


1. Someone makes 10x more than you do in a 9-5 job because they have more "leverage" with their work.


2. Distraction is the greatest killer of success. It stunts and destroys your brain.


3. You shouldn't take advice from people who are not where you want to be in life.


4. No one is coming to save your problems. Your life's 100% your responsibility.


5. You don't need 100 self-help books, all you need is action and self discipline.


6. Unless you went to college to learn a specific skill (ie. doctor, engineer, lawyer), you can make more money in the next 90 days just learning sales.


7. No one cares about you. So stop being shy, go out and create your chances.


8. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete.


9. Smoking has 0 benefit in your life. This habit will only slow your thinking and lower your focus.


10. Comfort is the worst addiction and cheap ticket to depression.


11. Don't tell people more than they need to know, respect your privacy.


12. Avoid alcohol at all cost. Nothing worse than losing your senses and acting a fool.


13. Keep your standards high and don't settle for something because it's available.


14. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.


15. Train yourself to take nothing personally to save yourself from 99.99% of mental problems.



QUALITIES OF A GREAT WIFE...

 QUALITIES OF A GREAT WIFE.


1. SHE IS INTELLIGENT.


 She opens her lips and oozes wisdom. One can have a hard and serious talk with her.


2. SHE IS EMOTIONALLY STABLE.


Yes, she may be hurt, feeling low and going through much, but she's a master of her feelings. She remains calm and collected 


3. SHE MULTIPLIES.


She will turn one hundred into a thousand, a thousand into a million. She doesn't sit pretty and lazy waiting to be done for.


4. SHE LOVES BEING LOVED


Yes, she is not waiting to be done for things, but when you love on her and do good to her, she is receptive and appreciative. In as much as she loves to give, she welcomes being served and given too


5. SHE LOVES THROUGH FOOD


She will make attempts to cook the best meals and in the process, feed your soul too


6. SHE'S FUN


Though she's intelligent, she can also act silly, crack jokes, tease, laugh; she is great company


7. SHE KNOWS HOW TO CALL FOR HELP


When she's stuck or in trouble, she knows how to ask for help. She doesn't suffer alone


8. SHE'S A REFLECTION OF GOD 


You see her and see God, she's becoming more and more like God: loving, forgiving, graceful, strong valued


9. SHE IS CONFIDENT


Whether she is an introvert or outgoing, she has a high self esteem. You can't bring her down. She has admirable qualities


10. SHE FEEDS HER MIND, BODY AND SPIRIT


You will catch her often reading a stimulating book or novel, praying, eating the right foods and working out


11. SHE KEEPS RELATIONSHIPS


She will have strong people surrounding her, whether a best friend, a clique of girlfriends or a bunch of close friends. 


She values relationships with friends and family not just the one with her man


12. SHE UNDERSTANDS HER BODY


She is self aware. She knows what type of clothes, fashion and hair compliments her body shape, size and complexion. She looks phyically good


13. SHE IS SEXUALLY AND FAITHFULLY ALIVE


She is not afraid to make sexual advances on her spouse, she knows how to make him touch her and desire her. She is sexually exciting. She is faithful to him and respects sex


14. SHE NURTURES


She takes care and covers children; whether her own or other people's.


15. SHE IS A TEACHER AND A STUDENT


She is one to advice and correct her man with love but also willing to learn and be corrected


16. SHE GIVES GREAT HUGS


Her touch is reassuring and comforting. She leaves you feeling loved and cared for 


17. SHE IS NOT INDEPENDENT


Though she is successful, professional, has her own money and is educated; she admits she needs her man. 


Being a modern woman doesn't mean she ages alone in her big mansion. She needs to love and be loved


18. SHE DOES NOT DO DRAMA


She values her peace and makes no apologies when she walks away from nonsensical matters.


19. SHE BLESSES AND ADDS VALUE


Everyone who encounters her is positively impacted. She oozes wisdom, uplifts you and speaks to King or Queen in you


WOMAN IN A MARRIAGE...



WOMAN IN A MARRIAGE...


A wise woman in a marriage often displays several key qualities and behaviors that contribute to a strong, healthy, and lasting relationship. Here are some signs of a wise woman in marriage:....


1. Emotional Maturity:..... 

She handles conflicts with grace, avoids unnecessary drama, and responds thoughtfully instead of reacting impulsively......


2. Effective Communication:.... 

She listens actively, speaks respectfully, and expresses her needs and feelings clearly without resorting to blame......


3. Patience and Understanding: .....

She understands that marriage is a journey with ups and downs and is patient during difficult seasons......


4. Supportive Partner:.... 

She supports her husband’s goals and dreams while also pursuing her own, fostering a partnership where both can thrive.......


5. Knows When to Speak and When to Be Silent:.... 

She understands that timing and tone matter; sometimes silence is more powerful than words.......


6. Resolves Conflicts Peacefully....: 

She seeks solutions instead of escalating issues. She values peace and unity over being "right.".


7. Practices Forgiveness: She doesn’t hold grudges but chooses to forgive and move forward, understanding that no one is perfect.....


8. Financial Wisdom: She manages resources prudently, contributes to financial stability, and understands the value of planning for the future......


9. Respects Her Husband: She values and respects her husband’s role, affirming his efforts and leadership without undermining him......


10. Focuses on Building the Home: She prioritizes creating a peaceful, loving, and nurturing environment for her family......


11. Self-awareness: She understands her strengths and weaknesses, continuously working on self-growth and personal development.......


12. Values Intimacy: She nurtures emotional and physical intimacy, recognizing its importance in keeping the marriage vibrant.....


13. Trustworthy and Loyal: She is faithful and trustworthy, building a foundation of trust in her relationship......


14. Knows the Power of Prayer/Faith (for the spiritually inclined):.... 

She leans on faith for guidance, strength, and wisdom in navigating marital challenges......


15. Practices Gratitude......:

 She focuses on the good in her husband and their life together, choosing appreciation over criticism.....


मेरी कौन हो तुम ?...

 



मेरी कौन हो तुम ?


एहसास हो तुम,

उस प्रेम का,

जो उपजता है,

पहली बार,

नाजुक से ह्रदय में.......


स्पर्श हो तुम,

उस स्नेह का,

जो महसूस होता है,

किसी अपने के कंधे पर,

सिर रखने में.......


प्रतीक्षा हो तुम,

उस मिलन रात की,

जो दुल्हन सजाती है,

अपने स्वप्नों में,

अपने ह्रदय में.......


एकान्तता हो तुम,

उस सागर किनारे जैसी,

जहाँ बैठ मैं सोचता हूँ,

तुमको ,सिर्फ तुमको.......


प्रेम हो तुम,

वह प्रेम जो उपजा था,

राधिका के ह्रदय से,

कनु के ह्रदय तक,

पहुँचने को,

सबसे अनभिज्ञ,सबसे सत्य.......


मैं पूछता हूँ,

खुद से,

आखिर कौन हो तुम?

वह कल्पना,

जो मेरे ह्रदय ने की थी,

प्रेम की,प्रेम से,

उस कल्पना का,

साक्षात हो,

यथार्थ हो तुम,

मेरा प्रेम हो तुम।। 💕💕

युवाओं को सलाह





युवाओं को सलाह


1. अपनी यौन इच्छाओं पर नियंत्रण ही आपकी सफलता या असफलता का कारण होगा।


2. पोर्न और हस्तमैथुन सफलता का सबसे बड़ा हत्यारा है। यह आपके मस्तिष्क को अवरुद्ध और नष्ट कर देता है।


3. ऊँट की तरह शराब पीने से बचें। अपने होश खोने और मूर्ख बनने से बुरा कुछ नहीं है।


4. अपने मानक ऊँचे रखें और किसी चीज़ से सिर्फ़ इसलिए संतुष्ट न हों कि वह उपलब्ध है।


5. अगर आपको कोई आपसे ज़्यादा होशियार मिले, तो उसके साथ काम करें, प्रतिस्पर्धा न करें।


6. कोई भी आपकी समस्याओं को बचाने नहीं आ रहा है। आपके जीवन की 100% ज़िम्मेदारी आपकी है।


7. आपको ऐसे लोगों से सलाह नहीं लेनी चाहिए जो जीवन में उस मुकाम पर नहीं हैं जहाँ आप पहुँचना चाहते हैं।


8. पैसे कमाने के नए तरीके खोजें। पैसे कमाएँ और उन मज़ाक करने वालों को नज़रअंदाज़ करें जो आपका मज़ाक उड़ाते हैं।


9. आपको 100 सेल्फ़-हेल्प किताबों की ज़रूरत नहीं है, आपको बस कार्रवाई और आत्म-अनुशासन की ज़रूरत है। अनुशासित रहें!


10. नशीली दवाओं से बचें। खरपतवार से बचें।


11. YouTube पर कौशल सीखें, नेटफ्लिक्स पर घटिया सामग्री देखने में अपना समय बर्बाद न करें।


12. कोई भी आपकी परवाह नहीं करता। इसलिए शर्मीलेपन को छोड़ें, बाहर जाएँ और अपने लिए अवसर बनाएँ।


13. आराम सबसे बुरी लत है और अवसाद का सस्ता टिकट है।


14. अपने परिवार को प्राथमिकता दें। भले ही वे बदबूदार हों, भले ही वे मूर्ख हों, उनका बचाव करें। उनकी नग्नता को छिपाएँ।


15. नए अवसर खोजें और अपने से आगे के लोगों से सीखें।


16. किसी पर भरोसा न करें। किसी एक पर भी नहीं, चाहे आपको कितना भी प्रलोभन क्यों न दिया जाए। खुद पर विश्वास रखें।


17. चमत्कार होने का इंतज़ार न करें। हाँ, आप हमेशा अकेले नहीं कर सकते, लेकिन लोगों की राय न सुनें।


18. कड़ी मेहनत और दृढ़ संकल्प आपको कुछ भी हासिल करा सकता है। खुद को विनम्र बनाना ही आपको ऊँचा उठाता है।


19. खुद को खोजने का इंतज़ार करना बंद करें। इसके बजाय खुद को बनाएँ।


 20. दुनिया आपके लिए धीमी नहीं होगी।


21. कोई भी आपका कुछ भी कर्जदार नहीं है।


22. जीवन एक एकल खिलाड़ी का खेल है। आप अकेले पैदा हुए हैं। आप अकेले मरने वाले हैं। आपकी सभी व्याख्याएँ अकेले हैं। आप तीन पीढ़ियों में चले गए हैं और किसी को परवाह नहीं है। आपके आने से पहले, किसी को परवाह नहीं थी। यह सब एकल खिलाड़ी है।


23. आपका जीवन पथ इस तरह से डिज़ाइन किया गया है कि आप हर समय ज़रूरतमंद, उदास और कमज़ोर महसूस करते हैं। और केवल एक ही रास्ता है, जो बाहर निकलने का फैसला करना है। आपके अलावा कोई भी खुद को और अपने प्रियजनों को नहीं बचा सकता।


24. हर किसी का दिल आपके जैसा नहीं होता। हर कोई आपके साथ उतना ईमानदार नहीं होता जितना आप उनके साथ हैं। आप ऐसे लोगों से मिलेंगे जो आपको अपने लाभ के लिए इस्तेमाल करेंगे और फिर अपने जीवन का वह हिस्सा बीत जाने और संतुष्ट होने के बाद आपको त्याग देंगे। जागते रहें।


 25. 25 वर्ष की आयु तक, आपको इतना समझदार हो जाना चाहिए कि:

→दूसरों की सफलता का जश्न मनाएँ

→ईर्ष्या और जलन से बचें

→खुले दिमाग रखें

→अनुमान लगाने से बचें

→इरादे से काम करें

→कृतज्ञता का अभ्यास करें

→ईमानदारी से बोलें

→रोज़ाना व्यायाम करें

→गपशप से बचें

→स्वच्छ भोजन करें

→माफ़ करें

→सुनें

→सीखें

→प्यार करें




Wednesday, December 10, 2025

आधुनिक समाज के युवाओं को मेरी सलाह




आधुनिक समाज के युवाओं को मेरी सलाह...


1. अपने मानक ऊँचे रखें और किसी चीज़ से सिर्फ़ इसलिए संतुष्ट न हों कि वह उपलब्ध है।

2. अपनी यौन इच्छाओं पर नियंत्रण ही आपकी सफलता या असफलता का कारण होगा

3. अगर आपको कोई आपसे ज़्यादा होशियार मिले, तो उसके साथ काम करें, प्रतिस्पर्धा न करें।

4. कोई भी आपकी समस्याओं को बचाने नहीं आ रहा है। आपके जीवन की 100% ज़िम्मेदारी आपकी है।

5. आपको ऐसे लोगों से सलाह नहीं लेनी चाहिए जो जीवन में उस मुकाम पर नहीं हैं जहाँ आप पहुँचना चाहते हैं।

6. पैसे कमाने के नए तरीके खोजें। पैसे कमाएँ और उन मज़ाक करने वालों को नज़रअंदाज़ करें जो आपका मज़ाक उड़ाते हैं।

7. आपको 100 सेल्फ़-हेल्प किताबों की ज़रूरत नहीं है, आपको बस कार्रवाई और आत्म-अनुशासन की ज़रूरत है। अनुशासित रहें!

8. नशीली दवाओं से बचें।

9. YouTube पर कौशल सीखें, नेटफ्लिक्स पर घटिया सामग्री देखने में अपना समय बर्बाद न करें।

10. कोई भी आपकी परवाह नहीं करता। इसलिए शर्मीलेपन को छोड़ें, बाहर जाएँ और अपने लिए अवसर बनाएँ।

11. आराम सबसे बुरी लत है और अवसाद का सस्ता टिकट है।

12. अपने परिवार को प्राथमिकता दें। भले ही वे बदबूदार हों, भले ही वे मूर्ख हों, उनका बचाव करें। उनकी नग्नता को छिपाएँ।

13. नए अवसर खोजें और अपने से आगे के लोगों से सीखें।

14. किसी पर भरोसा न करें। किसी एक पर भी नहीं, चाहे आपको कितना भी प्रलोभन क्यों न दिया जाए। खुद पर विश्वास रखें।

15. चमत्कार होने का इंतज़ार न करें। हाँ, आप हमेशा अकेले नहीं कर सकते, लेकिन लोगों की राय न सुनें।

16. कड़ी मेहनत और दृढ़ संकल्प आपको कुछ भी हासिल करा सकता है। खुद को विनम्र बनाना ही आपको ऊँचा उठाता है।

17. जीवन एक एकल खिलाड़ी का खेल है। आप अकेले पैदा हुए हैं। आप अकेले मरने वाले हैं। आपकी सभी व्याख्याएँ अकेले हैं। आप तीन पीढ़ियों में चले गए हैं और किसी को परवाह नहीं है। आपके आने से पहले, किसी को परवाह नहीं थी। यह सब एकल खिलाड़ी है।

18. आपका जीवन पथ इस तरह से डिज़ाइन किया गया है कि आप हर समय ज़रूरतमंद, उदास और कमज़ोर महसूस करते हैं। और केवल एक ही रास्ता है, जो बाहर निकलने का फैसला करना है। आपके अलावा कोई भी खुद को और अपने प्रियजनों को नहीं बचा सकता।

19. हर किसी का दिल आपके जैसा नहीं होता। हर कोई आपके साथ उतना ईमानदार नहीं होता जितना आप उनके साथ हैं। आप ऐसे लोगों से मिलेंगे जो आपको अपने लाभ के लिए इस्तेमाल करेंगे और फिर अपने जीवन का वह हिस्सा बीत जाने और संतुष्ट होने के बाद आपको त्याग देंगे। जागते रहें।

 20. आपको इतना समझदार हो जाना चाहिए कि:
👉 दूसरों की सफलता का जश्न मनाएँ
👉 ईर्ष्या और जलन से बचें
👉 खुले दिमाग रखें
👉 अनुमान लगाने से बचें
👉 इरादे से काम करें
👉 कृतज्ञता का अभ्यास करें
👉 ईमानदारी से बोलें
👉 रोज़ाना व्यायाम करें
👉 गपशप से बचें

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