Sunday, December 21, 2025

QUALITIES OF A GOOD MAN...

QUALITIES OF A GOOD MAN...

Good Character is Rare


1. Kindness, empathy, and compassion are valuable traits.

2. Integrity, honesty, and loyalty are essential.

3. A good heart and positive attitude are priceless.


Financial Struggles are Temporary


1. Financial situations can change quickly.

2. Hard work and determination can lead to success.

3. Support and encouragement can help overcome challenges.


Wealth isn't Everything


1. Money can't buy happiness or love.

2. Material possessions don't guarantee fulfillment.

3. Relationships built on trust, respect, and communication last.


Good Men are hard to Find


1. Loyalty, commitment, and dedication are rare.

2. Emotional intelligence and maturity are valuable.

3. A partner who values you beyond material possessions is precious.


Focus on shared Values


1. Similar goals, interests, and passions.

2. Mutual respect, trust, and communication.

3. Emotional connection and intimacy.


Support his Goals and Aspirations


1. Encourage his passions and interests.

2. Help him overcome obstacles and challenges.

3. Celebrate his successes and progress.


Build a Strong Foundation


1. Develop emotional intimacy and connection.

2. Establish open and honest communication.

3. Foster trust, respect, and loyalty.


Remember


1. Love is not measured by bank accounts.

2. True wealth lies in relationships and experiences.

3. A good partner is worth more than gold.


Don't let temporary financial struggles cloud your judgment. Focus on the qualities that truly matter in a partner. God bless us all


WHAT EVERY WOMAN SHOULD UNDERSTAND...

WHAT EVERY WOMAN SHOULD UNDERSTAND...


1. Your biggest enemy is yourself. That enemy is the one who makes you overthink, develop a low self-esteem, make you emotionally unstable and give you headache. Love yourself from the inside first before you expect love from the outside.


2. You are not in a relationship with a man until you both clearly state it. Don't get carried away by the idea of love with a man simply because he spends time with you or treats you special


3. If you are in a relationship or marriage, demanding your man to spend time with you will not make him do so. A man willingly spends time with you because you give him peace and he enjoys your company. Attract him the same way you peacefully and warmly attracted him when he was pursuing you 


4. Mr. Right is the man who offers a conducive environment for you to be the best you. Choose your environment well 


5. Your husband will never find you if you keep fooling around with other women's husbands


6. Mr. Right can also hurt you. The difference is that Mr. Right hurts when he hurts you, he apologises, owns up to his short comings and makes effort to love you better. Love is a learning process


7. Silent treatment will not solve anything. If your man hurts you, learn to speak your hurt and teach him to love you better. The best couples have mastered the art of conflict resolution 


8. Most men don't mind being corrected. What they do mind is the tone with which you correct them. The world has been harsh towards women for years, but tone down your defensive mode and learn to communicate effectively with respect and love. You two don't have to fight and argue to look like you are addressing issues 


9. A man who is not serious about you will avoid accountability, will operate in grey areas and will hide you. You will never go far with him. Serious men like being kept accountable, they take pride in what they commit to and are not afraid of responsibilities 


10. Getting pregnant for a man will not make him serious about you. Men are serious about a woman because they have a personal vision that includes her


11. If you are not a woman who knows herself, relationships and marriages will bring you drama. Your self awareness is your personal responsibility


12. If you do know yourself and you get married to a man who doesn't know himself, he will frustrate you. Be careful in him being lost he doesn't make you lose you. When marriages go bad, the repurcations are heaviest on the woman


13. Just because you have a relationship with God or you marry someone who has a relationship with God does not mean your marriage will work. You two have to learn to relate with each other, not just with God


14. There are good men in this world, just like there are good women in this world. You will not encounter those good men if you keep entertaining the wrong ones and frequenting where the wrong ones dwell


15. During dating, if you want to see the calibre of man you are getting to know, put off sex and see if he will stay, if he is interested for more than just sex. Be careful, some men will tell you all kinds of promises to get you to bed. They are just curious about how sexing you feels like, not interested to grow with you. Once they sex you, the curiosity goes, especially after you get pregnant 


16. Relationships/marriages don't always end or struggle because of the man, sometimes you are the problem. Learn to be honest and objective to see your wrong. If you two work together, your love will grow stronger


17. An insecure man will fight everything that is good about you; from your success, your career, your beauty, your personality, your education and he will blame you for his own issues. He is the problem, not you. Don't dim your light for a man whose identity is in darkness


18. If you have a good man, don't exaggerate the wrong he has done today to the point that you forget how good he has been to you. Don't make him feel unappreciated because he didn't do as you wanted him to today. Keep your perspective and don't overreact


19. Don't be that woman who has been so damaged by wrong men that when the good man comes along you push him away


20. Before you go and share your issues with your man to your friends, share them with him. The solution lies between you two. If he is stubborn or you two still disagree, then share with someone he can be accountable to, like a true friend or a counsellor, if it gets worse, involve both your parents


21. Disagreement or a bad day in your relationship or marriage doesn't mean it is breaking apart. Keep calm. Don't panic


22. No matter how much your husband loves you, he might not see your dreams or even support you that much. You have to learn to defend and nurture your dreams even if he doesn't get it


22. Complaining and nagging will never give you the desired results, it will only push your man away from you and make him tolerate you instead of enjoy you. If you want to inspire him to do more for and with you, appreciate him, have pleasant conversations with him, be easy to talk to


23. If you don't learn how to say no, people and the world will use you and dump you 


24. Remember, there is more to life than marriage, sex and having children. You are a blessing with so much to accomplish and pursue as an individual 


25. Don't be hard on yourself. Pat yourself on the back for how far you have gone


10 COMMONSENSE ADVICE OF LOVE...

 10 COMMONSENSE ADVICE OF LOVE..


1. You don't need to check his/her phone in search for text messages from other guys/babes. Stop spoiling your mind or giving yourself hypertension unnecessarily.


2. Never beg someone to love you. You don't beg for love, you allow love to grow gradually. Do things that will make the person develop love for you gradually. Not by begging or shedding tears.


3. If your partner says he/she wants to quit the relationship, allow him/her to go. Who told you that there is no one like your partner? There are many people who are better than your partner. A better person will come into your life.


4. To avoid the pain of heart break, do not give the whole of your heart, your body and your life to someone when you fall in love with the person. Human being cannot be trusted; they can break your heart at any time.


5. Being in love does not mean that you should worship the person you are in love with.

Respect them but don't worship them. 


6. For the fact that you are in love with someone does not mean that you should ignore and disregard every other human being on earth except your lover.

That is cowardice.


7. The number one person in your life must be God and not your boyfriend/girlfriend. Don't allow love turn you into a coward.


8. Do not Love with your heart alone. Use your brain also.


9. Heartbreak is not the end of the world. It may be the open door to a happier life and a better relationship with a new partner.


10. Do not be afraid of falling in love again after a heartbreak. If a bad door did not close, a better door will not open.

BE A MAN...

 BE A MAN...


I. Never Take Your Parents For Granted. They Won't Be Around Forever.


II. When You Improve Yourself, You Improve Your Family. When You Improve Your Family, You Improve Your Community. It’s That Simple.


III. Men Who Can Control Their Lust Are Unstoppable. They Have Solved 80% Of Their Life Problems. Control Your Lust!


IV. Embarrassment Lasts A Day. Regret Lasts A Lifetime.


V. A Man Without A Purpose Will Look To Distract Himself With Cheap Pleasures.


VI. Avoid People Who Hate The Opposite Sex.


VII. Pay Attention To The Advice Of Happy Old People.


VIII. Discipline Beats Motivation Every Single Day.


IX. You're A Slave To Everyone You Feel The Need To Impress.


X. Most Unhappiness In Men Comes From A Lack Of Purpose.


XI. Advice For Young Women: Avoid Men Who Are Rude To Their Mothers.


XII. One Of The Worst Things A Man Can Be Addicted To Is Comfort.


XIII. Femininity Inspires Masculinity. Masculinity Inspires Femininity.


XIV. Life Doesn't Get Easier, You Just Get Stronger.


XV. No Man Ever Became Great By Sitting On The Sofa Watching Netflix All Day.


XVI. Men Are Happiest When They’re Building A Legacy.


XVII. Ignore Losers Who Say Life Gets Worse With Age.


XVIII. Be The Man Who Remains Calm When Everyone Else Is Losing Their Minds.


XIX. It's Better To Risk Making Mistakes Than To Take No Action At All.


XX. Laughing At A Fat Person In The Gym Is Like Laughing At A Homeless Person For Trying To Find A Job.


XXI. Spending Time In Nature Is An Elite Anxiety Remedy.


XXII. Learn How To Take Criticism Without Reacting Emotionally.


XXIII. You Become A Better Man When You Stop Watching Porn.


XXIV. You Either Fight For What You Want Or You Get What You're Given.


XXV. Always Remember That Some Men Are Only Nice Because They're Too Weak To Confront Anyone.

HOW TO LØV£ YOUR WOMAN...

HOW TO LØV£ YOUR WOMAN...


1. Play with her bréåsts, don't play with her heart.


2. Open up her heart, don't open her old wounds.


3. Keep her sêcrèts, don't keep sêcrèts from her.


4. Béåt up her problems, don't béåt her up.


5. Help her to make good judgements, don't judge her.


6. Spread her lêgs alone, don't spread sëxuãl diséåses to her.


7. Fool around with her, don't make a fool out of her.


8. Laugh with her, don't laugh at her.


9. Suck her nîpples, don't suck life and joy out of her.


10. Make her scréám in bed when making løve, don't make her scréám out of frus.tration and depre.ssiôn.


11. Silence her storms and battles, don't silence her voice and opinions.


12. Make her møån in pleasure, don't make her mourn the death of your løve.


13. Relieve her stress, don't give her stress.


14. Spank her butt cheek, don't slap her face cheek.


15. Surprise her with gifts, don't surprise her with lies.


16. Make her wët between her lêgs, don't make her eyes wet with tears.


17. Be by her side, don't sideline her.


18. Make love to her doggie st.yle, don't be a dog that chéåts on her like a community pe.nîs.


19. Make other women jealous of her by how you løve her, don't make her jealous.


20. Keep a record of all the good she deliberately does daily, not the wrong she unintentionally does occasionally.


21. Don't insult her stretch mark, stretch her vision so that she leaves a positive mark on Earth 

HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY...

 HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY...

1. Make food;

2. Sleep with him;

3. Don't ask questions;

4. Leave him alone.


HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY:

1. Be Friends

2. Companion

3. Lover

4. Beautiful

5. Charming

6. Good in the kitchen

7. Atlético

8. Electrician

9. Plumber

10. Mechanic

11. Carpenter

12. Decorator

13. Stylist

15. Poet

16. Psychologist

17. Bug zapper

18. Psychiatrist

19. Good-natured

20. A good listener

21. Organizer

22. A good father

23. Smelly

24. Empathetic

25. Cult

26. Sensitive

27. Attentive

28. Seductive

29. Smart

30. Funny

31. Creative

32. Hot

33. Strong

34. Understanding

35. Tolerant

36. Prudent

37. Ambitious

38. Capable

39. Brave

40. Determined

41. True

42. Insurance

43. Check everything

44. Punching bag

45. Lonely without friends


DON'T FORGET TO:

46. Praise often

47. Give gifts

48. Be honest

49. Opening the car door

50. Not to stress her

51. Don't look at other women.

52. Lift the toilet lid.

53. Being a computer teacher.

54. Don't snore.

55. Do not dry your feet with a towel.


AND ALSO:

56. Never forget:

* her birthday

* dating anniversary

* the anniversary of the first kiss

* the anniversary of the first time they met

*her mother's birthday

* Valentine's Day and being faithful


THEY HATE...

1. Who responds

2. Who remains silent

3. You lie to them

4. Be sincere

5. Worries

6. Who doesn't care

7. Be jealous

8. Don't be jealous


BONUS:

And never forget, even if you are right, you are wrong

MY ADVICE TO YOUTHS...

 MY ADVICE TO YOUTHS...


1. Your control of your sexual urges will be the reason you are either successful or a failure.


2. Porn and masturbation is the greatest killer of success. It stunt and destroy your brain.


3. Avoid drinking alcohol like a camel drinking water. Nothing worse than losing your senses and acting a fool.


4. Keep your standards high and don't settle for something because it's available.


5. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete.


6. No one is coming to save your problems. Your life's 100% is your responsibility.


7. You shouldn't take advice from people who are not where you want to be in life.


8. Find new ways to make money. Make money and ignore the jokers who mocks and make fun of you. 


9. You don't need 100 self-help books, all you need is action and self discipline. Be disciplined! 


10. Avoid drugs. Avoid weed. 


11. Learn skills on YouTube not wasting your time consuming shitty content on Netflix. 


12. No one cares about you. So stop being shy, go out and create your chances.


13. Comfort is the worst addiction and cheap ticket to depression. 


14. Prioritize your family. Defend them even if they stink, even if they are idiots. Cover their nakedness. 


15. Find new opportunities and learn from people ahead of you. 


16. Trust no one. Not a single person no matter how tempted. Believe in yourself. 


17. Don't wait for miracles make them happen. Yes you can't always do it alone but don't listen to the opinion of people.


18. Hardwork and determination can make you achieve anything.

Humbling yourself only takes you higher.


19. Stop waiting to discover yourself. Create YOU instead.


20. The world won't slow down for you.


21. No one owes you anything. 

22. Love your mother, protect and take care of her. Respect and love your father, make sure to make him proud!

23. Life is a single-player game. You’re born alone. You’re going to die alone. All of your interpretations are alone. You’re gone in three generations and nobody cares. Before you showed up, nobody cared. It’s all single-player.

MATURITY IS A MINDSET, NOT AGE...

 MATURITY IS A MINDSET, NOT AGE...


 HERE ARE 14 SIGNS YOU ARE MATURE :


1.... You are not scared to be alone.


2..... You realize money is not evil. Lack of money is.


3..... You know that you are your worst enemy and you are your best supporter too.


4..... You realize that life's much better when no one knows anything about you.


5...... You don't care what other people think about you anymore.


6...... You stop chasing meaningless relationships and focus on improving yourself.


7........ You focus more on the opportunity of learning than the risk of failure.


8...... You don't stress about things that are out of your control.


9..... You understand that 9-5 won't help you achieve financial freedom.


10........ You understand that you get paid based on the value you are providing.


11......... In the real world, grades aren't the only measure of value. Connections, background, and practical skills often surpass academic performance. While grades may open doors.


12........ You understand that life's much better when you focus on improving yourself rather than partying every weekend.


13....... You realize that in the end only your family and a few true friends will be there for you.


14......... You also realize that in the end, even your family and friends will leave you, only the God remains with you.


SUCCESS DEMANDS THESE 6 THINGS...

 SUCCESS DEMANDS THESE 6 THINGS...

(The Secret Formula)


 1. Hard Work 

Don't believe in luck, believe in hard work. 

Stop trying to rush the process or searching for a shortcut. 

There is none.


2. Patience 

If you are losing the patience, you are losing the battle. 

First nothing happens, then it happens slowly and suddenly all at once. 

Most people give up at stage one.


 3. Sacrifice

If you don't sacrifice for what you want, then what you want becomes the sacrifice.

Everything has its price. The question is: Are you ready to pay it for the life you desire?


4. Consistency 

Consistency is what transforms average into excellence. 

Without consistency, you will never achieve greater success.


5. Discipline 

Motivation gets you going, but discipline keeps you growing. 

There will be days when you don't “feel” like doing it. 

You have to push through those days regardless of how you feel.

 

6. Self Confidence 

Confidence is, I'll be fine if they don't like me.

HOW TO ATTRACT PEOPLE TO YOU...

 HOW TO ATTRACT PEOPLE TO YOU...


1. Be mysterious. It develops attraction towards you.


2. Be least available. Rare things are always attractive to people.


3. Be confident. It shows that you are capable of doing things in a better way.


4. Be well dressed. Your great dressing sense attracts the attention of others.


5. Smell good. Use strong perfume and deodorant to attract the attention of others.


6. Your body language should be open. It shows that you are frank and carefree.


7. Be least reactive to attract others. It will attract their attention towards you and increase your demand.


8. Don't sell yourself so easily to people. Let them make efforts to win you over because people don't appreciate things that they get easily.


9. Don't express yourself much on social media. It kills attraction.


10. Don't care what others think of you.


11. Don't be desperate when talking or messaging someone.


12. Don't be dependent. The more dependent you are, the less attention you get. Learn to say NO.


12. Be yourself. Don't change to win someone over. Change yourself to improve yourself.


13. Don't reveal everything about yourself. Revealing everything about yourself makes you the least attractive person.


14. Don't get affected if someone doesn't give you the importance you want or deserve. Always be the one to end the conversation.


15. Don't show too much interest in anyone.


16. Don't be too nice to people. People will take you for granted and you are destined to lose all the attractions. A strong sense of humor increases attractiveness as it is also one of the signs of an intelligent personality.


17. Prioritize your goal and no other person (except your family members: Husband, Wife and Children).


18. During the conversation, make eye contact with the other person and smile slightly.


19. Love yourself and never be afraid to stand up for your beliefs. Have strong opinions and be aware of trending topics and other social issues.


20. Be adventurous. Travel to amazing places and get clicks and amazing stories to post on social media. Be optimistic and take risks. Optimism gives positive vibes to people and hence they are attracted to you. By taking risks, you show that you are brave and can step out of your comfort zone if needed.


21. Be independent. Spend most of your time alone without worrying about what others think or say about you. Be a thinker and analyze things. Offer solutions to other people's problems without expecting anything in return.

Never compromise with your self-esteem. Always respect and love yourself, but remember to stay humble and polite.


22. Be ambitious. Work on your goal and focus on improving yourself.

SOME RULES TO KNOW BEFORE YOU START A RELATIONSHIP...

SOME RULES TO KNOW BEFORE YOU START A RELATIONSHIP...


1. TAKE TIME TO BUILD FRIENDSHIP.

Get to know each other.


IF THE RELATIONSHIP IS MEANT TO BE, THERE WILL BE NO RUSH.


2. DON'T SAY 'I LOVE YOU' YET.

Don't rush, be patient and get to know the person well before saying 'I love you'.


3. WATCH OUT FOR WARNING SIGNS;

Look out for red flags while you're still in the friendship level.


FIRST KNOW YOURSELF, HAVE WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR IN A MAN AND WHAT YOU CAN PUT UP WITH AND WATCH OUT FOR ALL THAT DURING YOUR FRIENDSHIP.


RED FLAGS ARE SIMPLY THE THINGS YOU CANNOT ACCEPT BASE ON YOUR PERSON AND PUT WITH IN A SPOUSE.


4. LISTEN AND BE OBSERVANT!

Many people are not been observant of the person's Attitude, Pattern, and How He relates with his family and other people outside you.


Does the man love your family just as he claims to love you?


Does any of you have dependency?.


Does he have external responsibilities he is taking care of?


BE OBSERVANT OF THE PERSON, LIFESTYLE, CHARACTER, EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE WHILE YOU ARE STILL IN YOUR FRI


NOTICE THE PATTERN OF THE SUBJECT OF THEIR CONVERSATION AND THEIR PATTERN OF PRIORITY.


5. WATCH THEIR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD.


WHEN HE PICKS OFFENSE WHEN QUESTIONED ABOUT HIS BIBLE VERSE STUDY FOR THE DAY, IT IS A WARNING SIGN.


THE TRUE LITMUS TEST TO KNOW IF HE OR SHE HAS A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD IS HOW MUCH THE PERSON SUPPORTS YOU TO BE CLOSER TO GOD!


IF HE OR SHE IS COMFORTABLE WITH YOUR PRAYERLESS LIFE, THEN THEY TOO HAVE A PRAYERLESS LIFE.


THE EXTENT HOW A PERSON PUSHES YOU TO BE CLOSER TO GOD, IS THE SAME EXTENT TO WHICH THEY HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD.


DON'T LOOK FOR AN ACT OF GODLINESS, LOOK FOR THE FRUITS OF THE HOLY SPIRIT WITH POWER MANIFESTING RESULT


6. BEWARE OF PATTERNS.

Please, take time to do a thorough background check of whoever you're intending to have a future with.


ASK QUESTIONS ON SPIRITUAL MATTERS AND FAMILY TRADITIONAL PRACTICES IN THEIR FAMILY, TRY TO VISIT THEIR HOMETOWN.


BE SPIRITUALLY DISCERNING TO BEWARE OF SPIRITUAL TRANSFERENCE.


7. DO NOT START A RELATIONSHIP IN ISOLATION.

Do not start any dating in secret.

BE ACCOUNTABLE TO SOMEONE ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP


9. PRIORITIZE.

When your relationship with God is suffering because you're in a relationship, that's a warning sign that relationship is not from God for you.


ONE SUREST WAY TO KNOW YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS GOD'S WILL FOR IS WHEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD IS GROWING FAR MUCH BETTER THAN IT WAS WHEN YOU WERE STILL SINGLE.!


10. ARE YOU IN LOVE OR YOU ARE IN NEED?

Is the person truly in love with you?

Or

They are there to use you to achieve something for themselves?.

BE WISE! BE SMART! BE CALCULATIVE ! AS YOU'RE BEEN DISCERNING.


Do they love you for who you are? Your virtues and value as a person


Do they love you for what you have acquired for yourself or what they stand to gain by being with you?

THE 48 LAWS OF POWER.

 THE 48 LAWS OF POWER.


A Book written by Robert Greene that offers a Series of Strategies for Obtaining and Maintaining Power in various situations. Here I leave you a summary of the 48 Laws:


1. Don't Outshine the Boss: Make your Superiors feel Superior. Don't expose your Talent too much or you might Trigger their Insecurity.


2.Don't Trust friends too much, use your Enemies: Friends Betray you more easily, but if you Manage to WIN an Enemy, they will be more Loyal.


3. Hide your Intentions: Keep People Off Balance so they can't anticipate your Actions.


4. Always say Less than Necessary: Silence Breeds Power, and Talking too much Reveals your Plans.


5. Protect your Reputation at all Costs: Reputation is the Cornerstone of Power.


6. Call Attention at all Costs: Be Visible to be Relevant.


7. Make others Work for you and Attribute it: Take Advantage of the Work and Effort of others to your Advantage.


8. Make others come to you: Don't Run after Others, make them Look for you.


9. Win with Actions, Never Arguments: Prove your Point through Actions, Not Words.


10. Avoid Losers and Unhappy: The Misfortune of others is Contagious; stay away from those who Bring you Down.


11. Make People Depend on you: If others Depend on you, you're in Control.


12. Disarm with Sincerity and Selective Generosity: Emotional Disarmament will give you an Edge.


13. When you ask for Help, Appeal to the Interests of Others: Appeal to what Benefits Others, not Gratitude or Compassion.


14. Introduce yourself as a Friend, act as a Spy: Learn to Extract Valuable Information from others without them Noticing.


15. Crush your Enemy Completely: Do not let your Enemy Recover, or he will seek Revenge.


16. Use Absence to Increase Respect: The Value of something Increases with Scarcity..


17. Keep Others in Suspense: Be Unpredictable, you will Confuse Others and Gain Power.


18. Do Not Isolate yourself: Loneliness Weakens you; Engage yourself in the Web of Influence.


19. Know Who You’re Dealing With: Choose Your Opponents And Partners Wisely.


20. Don't compromise with anyone: Maintain your Independence so you don't get Caught up in other People's Affairs.


21. Pretend to be a Fool to Catch the Sly: Let others think they have an Advantage over you.


22. Use the Surrender Tactic: Sometimes giving in at the Right Time gives you the Advantage.


23. Focus your Forces: Keep your Energy Focused on what really Matters.


24. Be a Master at Simulation and Disguise: Don't reveal all your cards.


25. Recreate your own identity: Be the architect of your own destiny.


26. Keep your hands clean: Make sure the responsibility for the problems falls on others.


27. Play with people's needs to create devotion: Satisfy their deep desires to earn you their loyalty.


28. Be bold in acting: Timidity is dangerous, boldness is powerful.


29. Plan everything to the end: Having a detailed plan allows you to avoid unpleasant surprises.


30. Make your accomplishments look easy: Minimize the effort you put in to make others think you have innate talent.


31. Control Other People's Options: Guide the decisions of others by giving them limited options.


32. Play with people's fantasy: Appeal to people's emotions and dreams to gain clout.


33. Discover the weaknesses of others: Identify what drives people to manipulate their actions.


34. Be rule in your behavior: Power lies in the appearance of greatness and dignity.


35. Master the art of timing: Don't rush; everything has its right time.


36. Despise what you can’t have: Don’t obsess over things that are out of your reach.


37. Create engaging spectacles: Theatrics and spectacles capture attention.


38. Think as you wish, but behave like everyone else: Do not openly defy social norms.


39. Stir the waters to catch fish: Destabilize others to make mistakes.


40. Despise free: What is free usually comes with a hidden cost.


41. Avoid imitating great men: Forge your own path instead of following in the footsteps of others.


42. Beat the shepherd and the sheep will scatter: He demolishes leaders to weaken his followers.


43. Work on the hearts and minds of others: Conquer the spirit of people to control them.


44. Disarm and anger with mirror effect: Reflect the actions of others to destabilize them.


45. Preach the need for change, but never reform too much: Radical change can generate resistance.


46. Never look too perfect: Perfection breeds envy and haters.


47. Don't exceed your goal: When you achieve what you want, retire on time.


48. Be amorphous: Be adaptable, don't limit yourself to a rigid form.


These laws are designed to handle situations of power, but it's important to consider context and personal ethics when applying them.

HOW TO GET PEOPLE ATTRACTED TO YOU

HOW TO GET PEOPLE ATTRACTED TO YOU


1. Be mysterious. It develops attraction towards you.

2. Be least available. Scarce things are always attractive to the people.

3. Be confident. It shows you are capable of doing things in a better way.

4. Be well dressed. Your great dressing sense attracts the attention of others.

5. Smell good. Use powerful perfume and deo to catch other's attention.

6. Your body language should be open. It shows you are frank and carefree.

7. Be least responsive to attract other people. This will draw their attention towards you and will increase your demand.

8. Don't sell yourself so easily to the people. Let them make efforts to win you because people don't value the things which they get easily.

9. Don't express yourself much on social media. This kills the attraction.

10. Don't care what other people think about you.

11. Don't be desperate while talking or texting to someone.

12. Don't be needy. The more needy you become, the least attention you get. Learn to say NO.

12. Be yourself. Don't change yourself to win someone. Change yourself to improve.

13.Don't reveal everything about yourself. Revealing everything about yourself makes you 'least attractive' person.

14. Don't get affected if someone is not giving you importance you want or deserve.

Always be the one to end the conversation.

15. Don't show too much interest in anyone.

16. Don't be too nice to the people. People will take you granted for it and you are destined to loose all the attractions. Strong sense of humour increases the attraction because it's also one of the signs of an intelligent personality.

17. Show priority to your goal and not any other people (expect your family members).

18. During conversation, make eye-contact with the other person and smile slightly.

19. Love yourself and never be afraid to stand up for what you believe. Be opinionated and up to date about trendy topics and other social issues.

20. Be adventurous. Travel to amazing places and have someamazing clicks and stories from there to post on social media. Be optimistic and risk-taker. Optimism gives positive vibes to people and hence they are attracted towards you. By taking the risk, you show that you are courageous and can move out from your 'comfort zone' if needed.

21. Be independent. Spend most of your time alone without giving a shit about what other think or say about you. Be a thinker and analyse the things. Provide solutions to other's problems without expecting anything in return.

Never compromise with your self-respect. Always respect and love yourself but don't forget to remain humble and polite.

22. Be ambitious. Work on your goal and focus on self-improvement.