पढ़ाई ,नौकरी, परिवार,इज्जत, जिम्मेदारियां...

दोस्तों...वो मुकाम हासिल करों जिसे देखकर,लोग कहेंगे उम्मीद नहीं थी पर बंदे ने कर दिखाया...ये ज़िंदगी तभी तक हल्की है ,जब तक आपके सारे बोझ मां बाप ने उठा रखे हैं...अपनी ज़िंदगी की तारीफ तब भी करो जब वो तुम्हे कुछ ना भी दे रही हो...परवाह मत करो की कोई क्या कहता है क्योंकि तुम्हारी परिस्थिति तुम्हें पता है लोगों को नहीं...पढ़ाई ,नौकरी, परिवार,इज्जत, जिम्मेदारियां बस इसी दौड़ में जिंदगी गुजर जाती है...सुन्दरता आकर्षण का कारण हो सकती है लेकिन प्रेम तो व्यवहार से ही जन्म लेता है...दूसरों की खुशी देखकर आनंदित होना भी स्वस्थ मन की पहचान है.किसी का अपमान करना वह आपका स्वभाव बताता है की आप कैसे है पर किसी का सम्मान करना वह आपके संस्कार बताते है की आप कैसे है ...कान भरने वाले से दूर रहो तो अच्छा हैं,नही तो वो आपको अपनो से दूर कर देंगे. इरादे इतने कमज़ोर नहीं होने चाहिए की लोगो की बातों से टूट जाएं. संघर्ष प्रकृति का निमंत्रण हैं जो स्वीकार करता है वही आगे बढता हैं...ये दबदबा ये हुकूमत ये नशा ये दौलतें सब किरायेदार हैं घर बदलते रहते हैं इसलिए इनका गुमान अपने पास न रखो.किया गया कर्म और दिया गया धोखा बिना भुगतान के पीछा नहीं छोड़ता है...वक्त किसी का उधार नहीं रखता जो दोगे वो सूद समेत वापिस मिलेगा. कामयाब होने के लिए खुद से वादा और मेहनत ज्यादा करनी पड़ती है ! हर किसी को बहुत कुछ तो मिल जाता है पर सब कुछ किसी को भी नहीं मिलता है.बहुत सारा दुख, बहुत सारा डिप्रेशन होने के बाद भी बेशर्म की तरह हंसने का घमंड हो वही इंसान सबसे ताकतवर होता है.बुरे दिन का भी एक दिन बुरा वक्त आता है बस थोड़ा सा सब्र रखो.बातें नहीं काम बड़े करो क्योंकि लोगों को दिखाई कम और सुनाई ज्यादा देता है.लोग अपनी परेशानियों से नहीं, दूसरों की खुशियों से परेशान होते हैं.हमारा अस्तित्व हमारे कर्म से हैं किसी के नजरिए से नहीं...Raj Sir

NEVER EVER FORGET THESE IMPORTANT PILLS....

1. Always remember that you can grow without destroying others...

2. Always remember that your dreams can be fulfilled without sabotaging others...

3. Always remember that nobody must go down for you to rise...

4. Always remember that nobody must be shamed or embarrassed for your smile to be sustained...

5. Always remember that while others are rising, you can also rise...

6. Always remember that finding satisfaction in the pain of others will never bring you true happiness...

7. Always remember that what you wish others is a prayer for yourself...

8. Become the good fire that genuinely lights up others, not one that ruins the joy, goodwill, and expectation of others...

9. Never take delight in causing pain or sponsoring the tears of another...

10. Never ever use your position in authority to punish others for fear that your position would be taken from you. You never know tomorrow. Life is uncertain.Also, never use the position you occupy today to frustrate others, for you never can tell what the future holds tomorrow...

11. Allow the true FEAR OF GOD to guide your days, STRENGTHEN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS and SET YOUR COURSE...This is the path to true peace, lasting influence and meaningful living...

Here is 14 Points for self improvement & development...

1. Believe in yourself: The first step to achieving success is to believe in yourself and your abilities...

2. Visualize success: Use the power of visualization to see yourself achieving your goals and living the life you want...

3. Affirmations: Use positive affirmations to reprogram your subconscious mind and overcome negative self-talk...

4. Take action: Success requires action, so take small steps every day towards your goals...

5. Learn from failure: Failure is not a setback but an opportunity to learn and grow...

6. Surround yourself with positivity: Surround yourself with positive people and influences that support your goals...

7. Embrace change: Change is inevitable, so embrace it and use it as an opportunity to grow...

8. Focus on solutions: Instead of dwelling on problems, focus on finding solutions...

9. Be persistent: Success often requires persistence and perseverance in the face of obstacles...

10. Take responsibility: Take responsibility for your life and your choices, and don't blame others for your failures...

11. Practice gratitude: Cultivate an attitude of gratitude for what you have in life, rather than focusing on what you lack...

12. Develop a growth mindset: Adopt a growth mindset that sees challenges as opportunities for growth and learning...

13. Take care of yourself: Self-care is essential for maintaining physical, mental, and emotional well-being...

14. Keep learning: Continuously learn new skills and knowledge to stay relevant and adapt too...

The Greatest Guidance...

1. Window of opportunity...

Fear makes us lose small opportunities. You must learn to run towards your fears.

Do the things that make you uncomfortable. Visit the places that scare you. Talk to people, even if you fear them. Make friends...

2. Nothing fails like success...

The more you stop doing what took you up to the number one position, that is the moment you crumble.Organizations that remain successful are humble, efficient, play faster, devoted, and add value to their clients...

3. Be a rock star at work...

Be passionate about what you do. Work puts meaning into our lives.Working hard makes you a gift to yourself and the organization. You will be happier and richer and live a fulfilling life...

4. Your days define your life...

You create your future by what you do today. Nothing is small.The smallest choices you make now have consequences...

5. Be a Lifetime Learner...

A leader who reads profusely will encounter situations in which he may rely on the experience gained from a book to solve such problems.

Reading remains the best discipline anyone can cultivate...

6. Get some skin in the game...

Albert Einstein describes insanity as doing the same thing repeatedly and expecting the same result.You must learn to take risks in life to avoid staying in one position. Taking more risks in pursuing your dreams is rewarding...

7. Make time to think...

Five percent of the people think; ten percent of the people think they think; and the other eighty-five percent would rather die than think...

8. Leadership begins on the extra mile...

The greatness guide teaches that leadership and success begin with the extra mile.Ordinary people do not spend time on the extra mile.Who says you are ordinary?...

9. Reference point...

Ultimately, success is about consistency in what you do.You should pick positive reference points that will help you see alternative ways of doing things...

10. Life Lessons...

Be the eternal optimist — get more joy from life and see the best in every situation Value people — put people first, respect your friends. They will never fail you. Be Decisive...

Have a very good night friends...