41 THINGS TO TELL YOUR DAUGHTERS AS THEY GROW...

41 THINGS TO TELL YOUR DAUGHTERS AS THEY GROW...

1: Tell your daughter that Money has no gender. She can make money the way any Man can make it and even more.

2: Tell her to step into the FIELD not the BED to make money. Money from the field comes with dignity, money from the Bed comes with STD.

3: Let your daughter know that she need to trade her brain not her privates to make money.

4: Train your daughter never to pray to marry a rich man, but to work to become rich girl.

5: Train your daughter never to pray to marry a Governor but to work to become the President.

6: Train your daughter that the instrument of money making is under the Hat not under the skirt.

7: Train your Daughter never to Man-hunt but to focus her focus and she will become the focus of many Men.

8: Train your daughter that no man can love her like God, so she must never trade her relationship with God with a relationship with any Man.

9: Train your daughter that internet never forget or forgive, let her know that the foolish post she makes in the internet can depose her from her post tomorrow.

10: Tell your daughter that time wait for no man, if she waste her time with a foolish man, she will wake up one day to discover that it is night time.

11: Tell your daughter that life give back what you give into it, wickedness will be fully repaid.

12: Tell your daughter that beauty is not in exposing nakedness, it is dressing to look like a Queen.

13: Tell your daughter that she is a princess and not a prostitute, tell her to dress to prove she is.

14: Tell your daughter that it is a great wickedness to sleep with the husband of another Woman.

15: let her know that married men do not love her, they only see her as available sex toy to satisfy the urge in them.

16: Let your daughter know that the best friend she can keep is God, He can not disappoint her.

17: let your daughter know that beauty without brain makes one look like a Decorated pig.

18: teach your daughter to believe in herself because she is capable of doing whatever she believes she can do.

19: Teach your daughter never to think that wealth is sexually transmitted. Sleeping with wealthy men will only make her a whore not wealthy.

20: tell your daughter good look does not make a man a good Man. He can have 6 PACKS and be a PACK of trouble.

21: teach your daughter never to be a Run girl because run girls normally RUN into trouble.

22: Tell your daughter knowing God is not negotiable and being righteous should be her entire Life principle.

23: Tell your daughter time go fast and wait for no one, she should stop thinking she has time to waste, she should get up now before it is too late.

24: Tell your daughter nobody wants to marry a liability, every man is looking for Help-meet not help-eat.

25: Tell your daughter she must have her own sources of income. A woman without her own sources of income will be embarrassed by her husband, in law and even her own Children.

26: Tell your daughter it is not all that glitters that are gold Some May even be a ball of fire.

27: Tell your daughter her body is not for sale but to preserve it for the man that deserve it after her wedding.

28: Tell your daughter failure is not the end but a bend.

29: Tell your daughter there is no height she can not attain, if she can just dare it.

30: Tell your daughter courtship is not marriage, she can still let go any man with red flags.

31: Tell your daughter that a broken courtship is not a divorce she can still get out of relationship at any time before wedding.

32: Tell your daughter she is beautiful, if a guy tells her she is, she will say my Dad told me too.

33: Tell your daughter never to be a run girl, because this will ruin her future and destiny.

34: Tell your daughter that Marriage is more important than Wedding, she should take more time to prepare for marriage than wedding.

35: Tell your daughter Love is not enough for marriage, commitment, faithfulness, purity, contentment, communication, training etc are needed.

36: Tell your daughters that attitude is more than beauty.

38: Tell your daughter Labour bring favour

39: Tell your daughter she is not to submit to Men but her husband

40: Tell your daughter that marriage choice making may bring PAIN OR GAIN

41: Tell your daughter that it is not all Professors of love that are POSSESSORS OF LOVE, He may say I love you, he might actually mean I love sex.

14 Rules For Men...

 14 Rules For Men:

1. Never go back to the woman who ch€@ted.

She showed you exactly who she is. 

You're not a backup plan, and you're not an option. 

You're the king of your life. 

Respect yourself to walk away and never look back. 

2. Never let a woman disrespect you. 

The moment you allow it, you lose your power

Stand firm, demand respectdon', and don't tolerate anything less. 

You're a man of value, and she needs to know it. 

Set the standard high, or walk away without hesitation. 

3. Never shake a hand sitting down.

It’s a sign of weakness and laziness.

Stand up, look them in the eye, and grip with strength.

Your handshake is your word—make sure it commands respect.

Always rise to the occasion, never slouch in the presence of others.

4. Never go broke to impress others.

Only fools sacrifice their future for fleeting approval.

Real power comes from financial discipline and independence.

Let others chase vanity while you build wealth.

5. Take 1-3 seconds pause after getting asked a question.

It shows you’re in control, not impulsive.

A quick mind doesn’t mean a quick mouth.

Think, then speak with authority.

That pause commands respect and makes your words carry weight.

6. Quit P0rn.

P0rn conditions men to become spectators in their lives.

Slowly eroding their self respect and confidence to go out & achieve.

Not to mention you are wasting your life force & energy levels for fleeting pleasure.

Remove it from your life and watch it transform.

7. Always have the ambition to be better.

Complacency is the enemy of greatness.

Every day is a chance to outdo the man you were yesterday.

Set goals, crush them, and then raise the bar.

Never settle, never stagnate—relentlessly pursue your own evolution. 

8. Never let a man front you.

Stand your ground, hold your position.

If you let someone take the lead in your own life, you've already lost.

Be the one who dictates the terms, not the one who follows.

Strength is earned by never backing down or stepping aside.

9. Never eat the last piece of something you didn't buy.

It’s a matter of respect and self-control.

Leave it for the one who paid the price.

A real man knows when to take and when to step back.

Show restraint, show respect, and never be the one who takes without giving.

10. Don't beg for a relationship.

The moment you do, you’ve lost your value.

Real men don’t chase, they attract.

If she doesn’t see your worth, walk away with your head high.

Never compromise your dignity for anyone. You’re the prize—act like it.

11. Your handshake should be firm.

It’s the first sign of strength, confidence, and respect.

A weak handshake shows a weak man.

Grip with purpose, look them in the eye, and let them feel your presence.

Your handshake speaks before you do—make sure it says ‘I’m in control.

12. Work out at least 4x a week.

Your body is your temple, and strength is the foundation of a powerful life.

No excuses, no shortcuts—just discipline and dedication.

You owe it to yourself to be in peak condition.

13. Dress well no matter what the occasion.

Your appearance is your first statement—make it count.

A sharp look commands respect and sets you apart.

Never be caught off guard; always be the best-dressed man in the room.

Style is power, wear it like armor.

14. Learn to defend yourself. 

A man who can't protect himself is at the mercy of the world. 

Strength, skill, and confidence come from knowing you can handle any situation. . 

ATTITUDES YOU NEED TO STOP WHEN YOU ARE MARRIED...

ATTITUDES YOU NEED TO STOP WHEN YOU ARE MARRIED...

When married, consider letting go of these attitudes:

1. Possessiveness: Trust and respect boundaries.

2. Competition: Focus on teamwork and mutual support.

3. Criticism: Practice constructive feedback and empathy.

4. Comparison: Appreciate your unique relationship.

5. Selfishness: Cultivate compromise and understanding.

6. Dishonesty: Foster transparency and open communication.

7. Pride: Embrace humility and willingness to apologize.

8. Unforgiveness: Practice forgiveness and letting go.

9. Lack of accountability: Take responsibility for actions.

10. Emotional unavailability: Prioritize emotional intimacy.

11. Disrespect: Treat each other with kindness and respect.

12. Conditional love: Love unconditionally.

13. Unrealistic expectations: Communicate and set realistic goals.

1. Defensiveness: Listen actively and respond thoughtfully.

2. Passive-aggressiveness: Address issues directly.

1. Blame-shifting: Take ownership of mistakes.

1. Emotional manipulation: Communicate openly and honestly.

2. Control: Respect each other's autonomy.

3. Resentment: Address issues before they escalate.

4. Lack of gratitude: Cultivate appreciation.

Replacing these attitudes with positive ones can strengthen your marriage.

Positive attitudes to cultivate:

1. Empathy and understanding

2. Open communication

3. Mutual respect

4. Trust and loyalty

5. Compromise and flexibility

6. Forgiveness and letting go

7. Emotional intelligence

8. Teamwork and cooperation

9. Gratitude and appreciation

10. Unconditional love

Resources:

1. Marriage counseling or therapy

2. Relationship self-help books

3. Online forums and communities

4. Support groups for married couples

5. Personal growth and self-improvement resources

RESPONSIBILITIES OF A FATHER IN A FAMILY...

RESPONSIBILITIES OF A FATHER IN A FAMILY...

 PRIMARY RESPONSIBILITIES:

1. Providing financial support

2. Emotional guidance and support

3. Disciplining and setting boundaries

4. Role-modeling values and behavior

5. Protecting and ensuring family safety

EMOTIONAL SUPPORT:

1. Listening and validating feelings

2. Offering comfort and reassurance

3. Encouraging open communication

4. Supporting partner's emotional needs

5. Modeling healthy emotional expression

DISCIPLINE AND GUIDANCE:

1. Setting clear expectations and rules

2. Teaching life skills and values

3. Encouraging responsibility and independence

4. Modeling respectful communication

5. Providing constructive feedback

FINANCIAL PROVISION:

1. Managing household finances

2. Providing for family's basic needs

3. Planning for future financial security

4. Saving for children's education

5. Ensuring family's economic stability

ROLE-MODELING:

1. Demonstrating integrity and honesty

2. Modeling respectful relationships

3. Teaching respect for authority

4. Encouraging physical and mental well-being

5. Embodying values and principles

PARENTING PARTNERSHIP:

1. Co-parenting with mother

2. Sharing childcare responsibilities

3. Collaborating on discipline and guidance

4. Supporting partner's parenting style

5. Maintaining united front in parenting

COMMUNITY INVOLVEMENT:

1. Participating in children's activities

2. Volunteering in community or school

3. Building relationships with neighbors

4. Role-modeling social responsibility

5. Fostering community connections

PERSONAL GROWTH:

1. Pursuing personal interests and hobbies

2. Continuing education and self-improvement

3. Maintaining physical and mental health

4. Setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care

5. Seeking support and resources when needed

INFLUENCING CHILDREN'S DEVELOPMENT:

1. Shaping moral and ethical values

2. Encouraging educational and career goals

3. Modeling healthy relationships

4. Teaching life skills and independence

5. Fostering emotional intelligence.

SOME COMMON SIGNS OF A WEAK MAN...

SOME COMMON SIGNS OF A WEAK MAN...

Who is a weak man?

Weak men are individuals who have low self-esteem, lack self-confidence, and are usually influenced by others. 

Being weak can negatively impact your character and relationships.

These are the common signs of a weak man: lack of confidence in their tone of voice, being easily manipulated, and indecisiveness with their actions.

It is easy to differentiate a strong man from a weak man from how they present themselves.

A strong man is also known as a high-value man; he is easily respected and adored by people because of how he carries himself.

THESE ARE SOME COMMON SIGNS.

1. HE IS A YES MAN 

Weak men are often not confident in their way of life, so they intend to listen and follow other people’s ways and whatever they say they will do.

As a man, you are to trust yourself; you are meant to lead by example, not to be a follower because you are worried about your insecurities.

2. HE AVOIDS CHALLENGES 

This is why ladies love a man who thrives for success because they walk up to challenges and win no matter the cost. But weak men fear a fight; they hide in their shadows and wait until the challenge ends.

3. HE PLEASES OTHERS BUT NOT TO HIMSELF 

Weak men are always on other people. This means that they are good at pleasing others rather than themselves.

Men who are strong and show no fear are always looking for ways to improve themselves and make their lives as easy and independent as possible.

Ladies usually admire independent men, and that should be your goal as a man.

4. HE PUTS OTHERS ON A PEDESTAL 

Weak men are known for worshipping others because of their status and likes; this can jeopardize their personalities and relationships.

They are very insecure about themselves and always depend on people they assume perfection, like the celebrities they admire.

As a man, you are to feel strong and fearless, face your fear, and build self-confidence; then everything will go as planned.

5. HE HAS NO BROTHERHOOD 

Weak men are like beta males; they have no real friends but are surrounded by similar weak minds. Real brotherhood comes with the courage to help one grow, and that courage is what a man needs, not some weak, dirt mind.

As a man, you need to be surrounded by power-minded men who will help you as you grow, just like the way billionaires surround billionaires.

6. HE CAN’T MAKE HIS OWN DECISION 

Ladies love a man who can take charge; with that, I mean a man who can make his own rules and regulations, not a weak man who cannot be strong enough to take care of her but depends on her or decisions from other people.

Learn to become a standard in your relationship; your woman will need that. She needs your advice; they need your strength, and they need your heart.

7. HE IS A PORNOGRAPHY ADDICT 

Pornographic addictions are a common sign of a weak man. This sign builds the mind of a weak man, and some of these reasons will have damaging effects on a man and can ruin their relationship with a lady...

What are the damaging effects of pornography in a man?

Negative feelings.

Poor focus in life.

Depression.

Destroys your inner drive.

It makes you socially awkward.

Destroys your self-confidence.

Increases aggression...etc

8. HE IS EASILY MANIPULATED 

Weak men are easily manipulated by manipulators that’s because they lack self-awareness and believe in themselves. Weak men are always used to please others, especially the higher authorities like the Alpha males.

Manipulation is a trick that many people use, even in relationships. They are a deceitful act that reduces your potential as an individual.

9. HE LACKS CONFIDENCE IN HIS VOICE 

Most of the time, a man’s voice can reveal whether he is a weak man or a strong man. It is easy to identify a weak man from his tone of voice; they show no confidence in themselves and are usually ignored and disrespected by this sign.

Showing confidence when you speak with people shows you have a strong belief in yourself and gives authority to people...

 

10. HE IS THE LOUDEST IN THE ROOM 

An old saying goes, “The loudest in the room is the weakness.” It is said that when you begin to talk so much about yourself or brag about something, it also shows dishonesty and disloyalty to yourself and the people around you.

With that said, being quiet and mysterious can help improve your value as a man and also your relationships.

11. HE REFUSES TO LEARN 

It is a great philosophy that anyone who seeks knowledge values self-improvement and, most importantly, shows no weakness. Learning is the most important habit of your life, and it should be an everyday skill.

Learning develops a clear purpose for your life and gives meaning to everything around you. Only the weak refuse to adapt to new skills and knowledge, and that is why they cannot be compared to a high-value man.

12. HE SHOWS OFF A LOT 

Weak men show off a lot because of their insecurities and low self-esteem.

WHAT HURTS A MAN...

 WHAT HURTS A MAN...

1. It hurts a man when his wife speaks to other people with more respect and warmth than she does with him

2. It hurts a man when his wife treats him well only when there are visitors

3. It hurts a man when his wife makes him feel less important to the children just because he doesn't have a womb

4. It hurts a man when he is always the one to say sorry even for the things he is not wrong for just because she is emotionally delicate

5. It hurts a man when the wife airs their dirty linen in public, telling her family and friends his flaws and tainting his image 

6. It hurts a man when the wife is ever moody, unapproachable, cold and combative, making him feel uncomfortable to come home early 

7. It hurts a man when he watches his wife smiling and blushing when she reads text messages from other men over the phone but brushes him off and assumes his presence

8. It hurts a man when the wife is distant, spiteful, not responsive to his touch, mad and not telling him what she is mad for 

9. It hurts a man when the wife keeps getting confusing advice from her friends, outsiders and third parties are wrecking what belongs to two

10. It hurts a man when the wife sees nothing else but his negatives. She rarely appreciates his good 

11. It hurts a man when the wife does not move past a resolved issue. She is stuck in matters that they agreed to progress from 

12. It hurts a man when the wife speaks to him with a tone as if to boss him, order him around or belittle him 

13. It hurts a man when the wife doesn't honour him or his effort just because he doesn't earn that much 

14. It hurts a man when the wife uses him to get a comfortable life but then she turns to

10 HABITS OF A GOOD WIFE

 10 HABITS OF A GOOD WIFE...

1. *Effective Communication*: Communicates openly and honestly with her partner, listening actively and expressing herself clearly.

2. *Emotional Intelligence*: Manages her emotions, empathizes with her partner, and resolves conflicts in a healthy and constructive manner.

3. *Support and Encouragement*: Supports her partner's goals, dreams, and aspirations, offering encouragement and celebrating their successes.

4. *Respect and Trust*: Demonstrates respect for her partner's opinions, feelings, and boundaries, building and maintaining trust through her actions and words.

5. *Teamwork and Collaboration*: Works together with her partner as a team, sharing responsibilities, and collaborating to achieve common goals.

6. *Intimacy and Affection*: Prioritizes intimacy and affection, making time for regular date nights, romantic getaways, and thoughtful gestures.

7. *Personal Growth and Development*: Pursues her own personal growth and development, engaging in hobbies, learning new skills, and setting goals for herself.

8. *Forgiveness and Understanding*: Practices forgiveness and understanding, letting go of grudges and resentments, and seeking to understand her partner's perspective.

9. *Responsibility and Accountability*: Takes responsibility for her actions, apologizing when necessary, and being accountable for her commitments and obligations.

10. *Gratitude and Appreciation*: Cultivates a spirit of gratitude and appreciation, expressing thanks for her partner, their relationship, and the blessings in her life.

Remember: These habits can help build a strong, healthy, and fulfilling marriage. God bless us all.

LIFE LESSONS ABOUT LOVE, SEX, AND RELATIONSHIPS

LIFE LESSONS ABOUT LOVE, SEX, AND RELATIONSHIPS...

1. Your Worth Isn’t Defined by Your Relationship Status.

Being in a relationship doesn’t define who you are. Know your value, whether you're single or in a relationship.

2. Sex Isn’t Love, and Love Isn’t Sex.

Sex doesn’t equate to love, and love isn’t about physical intimacy. True love is about respect, trust, and emotional connection.

3. Your Body is a Temple, Not a Playground.

Respect yourself enough to protect your body. It’s okay to set boundaries and say “no” when you feel pressured to cross them.

4. Don’t Rush into Relationships.

Love takes time to grow. Don’t feel pressured to be in a relationship just because others are. The right person will come at the right time.

5. You Are Not Obligated to Give in to Temptation.

Just because someone else tries to push you into something doesn’t mean you have to give in. Be strong enough to say no.

6. True Love Waits.

Real love is patient. It doesn’t rush you into intimacy or make you feel guilty for choosing to wait. True love values your heart, not your body.

7. Sex Is a Life-Changing Decision.

Once you give your body to someone, you give away a piece of your heart. Make sure that decision is with someone who truly respects and cherishes you.

8. Don't Confuse Lust with Love.

Lust is about physical attraction and desire; love is deeper. Make sure you distinguish the difference before making life-changing decisions.

9. Guard Your Heart, It’s the Gateway to Your Future.

Protect your emotions and your heart. What you invest in emotionally now can affect your future happiness and relationships.

10. Set Standards for Yourself, Not Just for Others.

Know what you deserve and don’t settle for less. Whether it’s in relationships, love, or even marriage, set your standards high.

11. Stay True to Your Values.

In a world full of temptations, stand firm in what you believe is right. Your values are your guide and should shape your decisions.

12. Love is More Than Words, It’s Actions.

Anyone can say "I love you," but actions speak louder. Pay attention to how someone treats you, not just what they say.

13. Marriage is a Commitment, Not a Convenience.

Marriage isn’t a quick fix to your problems or a way to validate your relationship. It’s a lifelong commitment based on mutual respect, love, and understanding.

14. Don’t Rush to Get Into Marriage.

Marriage is beautiful, but it’s also a huge responsibility. Take your time, understand yourself, and make sure you're with the right person.

15. Sexual Immorality Will Lead You Down a Dark Path.

Engaging in sexual immorality can leave emotional scars, damage your future relationships, and even affect your mental health. Protect your future by making wise choices today.

16. Be Honest with Yourself About Your Needs.

If you’re looking for love, make sure you're looking for it in the right places. Don’t settle for lust disguised as love.

17. True Intimacy Starts with Emotional Connection.

Physical intimacy follows emotional intimacy. Build a deep emotional connection first before rushing into anything physical.

18. Know When to Walk Away from Toxic Relationships.

If someone makes you feel worthless or pushes you to do things you're uncomfortable with, it’s time to walk away. You deserve respect, kindness, and understanding.

19. You Can’t Build a Healthy Relationship Without Trust.

Trust is the foundation of any relationship. Without it, you’re building on quicksand. Don’t ignore red flags or let anyone disrespect your trust.

20. You Have the Power to Say ‘No.’

No one can make you do something you don’t want to do. Be strong enough to say no when something doesn’t align with your values or goals.

21. Don’t Let Social Pressure Decide Your Choices.

The world may try to pressure you into making decisions that aren’t right for you. Trust your gut and stick to your personal boundaries.

22. Take Time to Heal Before Entering a New Relationship.

If you’ve been hurt in a previous relationship, take time to heal before jumping into another one. Your healing is important for your emotional and mental well-being.

23. Sexual Relationships Are Not a Bargaining Chip.

Your body is not a tool for getting love, attention, or validation. It should be a precious gift shared with someone who truly values and respects you.

24. Don’t Let Rejection Define You.

Not everyone you meet will be right for you. Don’t let rejection make you feel unworthy. It’s just a sign that someone else is better suited for you.

25. Know When to Walk Away From the Wrong Person.

If someone isn’t treating you with love and respect, walk away. Don’t waste time trying to fix something that was never meant to work.

40 phrases for successful and confident

40 phrases for successful and confident...

1. Where there's a will, there's a way.

2. Good manners don't cost anything.

3. Always ask. They can only say no.

4. You're not marrying one; you're marrying the whole family.

5. Find the good in everybody.

6. Don't cry before you try.

7. There are no stupid questions, only stupid answers.

8. Pretty is as pretty does.

9. Treat others as you would like to be treated.

10. You can't control what others do, only your own reactions.

11. Don't buy what you can't afford.

12. Remember that things don’t make you happy, people do.

13. You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.

14. Two wrongs don't make a right.

15. Watch what you step in.

16. Cow turds are a cattlemen's dollar signs. It all depends on how you look at it.

17. Teamwork makes the dream work.

18. Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.

19. What we think determines what happens to us, so if we want to change our lives, we need to stretch our minds.

20. Fair? The fair is two weeks in the fall.

21. One man's trash is another man's treasure.

22. The greatest day in your life is when you take total responsibility for your attitudes. That's the day you truly grow up.

23. True freedom is understanding that we have a choice in who and what we allow to have power over us.

24. You're only as old as you feel.

25. A rolling stone gathers no moss.

26. Early to bed and early to rise makes you healthy, wealthy, and wise.

27. Happiness is not by chance but by choice.

28. If you don’t like the road you’re walking, start paving another one.

29. A rising tide lifts all boats.

30. Don't judge a book by its cover.

31. You’re braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.

32. The early bird catches the worm.

33. Each day comes bearing its gifts. Untie the ribbon.

34. Expecting the world to treat you fairly because you are a good person is a little like expecting the bull not to attack you because you are a vegetarian.

35. Confession is good for the soul.

36. You can't make an omelet without breaking a few eggs.

37. The grass is greener where you water it.

38. The greatest glory in living lies not in never failing, but in rising every time we fail.

39. There is no single recipe for success. But there is one essential ingredient: Passion.

40. Never lose hope. And never underestimate the power of prayer.

SOME SOCIAL RULES THAT MAY HELP YOU...

SOME SOCIAL RULES THAT MAY HELP YOU...

1. Don’t call someone more than twice continuously. If they don’t pick up your call, presume they have something important to attend to;

2. Return money that you have borrowed even before the person that borrowed you remember or ask for it. It shows your integrity and character. The same goes for umbrellas, pens, and lunch boxes.

3. Never order the expensive dish on the menu when someone is giving you a lunch/dinner.

4. Don’t ask awkward questions like ‘Oh so you aren’t married yet?’ Or ‘Don’t you have kids’ or ‘Why didn’t you buy a house?’ Or why don't you buy a car? For God’s sake it isn’t your problem;

5. Always open the door for the person coming behind you. It doesn’t matter if it is a guy or a girl, senior or junior. You don’t grow small by treating someone well in public;

6. If you take a taxi with a friend and he/she pays now, try paying next time;

7. Respect different shades of opinions. Remember what's 6 to you will appear 9 to someone facing you. Besides, a second opinion is good for an alternative;

8. Never interrupt people talking. Allow them to pour it out. As they say, hear them all and filter them all;

9. If you tease someone, and they don’t seem to enjoy it, stop it and never do it again. It encourages one to do more and it shows how appreciative you're;

10. Say “thank you” when someone is helping you.

11. Praise publicly. Criticize privately;

12. There’s rarely a reason to comment on someone’s weight. Just say, “You look fantastic.” If they want to talk about losing weight, they will;

13. When someone shows you a photo on their phone, don’t swipe left or right. You never know what’s next;

14. If a colleague tells you they have a doctors' appointment, don’t ask what it’s for, just say "I hope you’re okay". Don’t put them in the uncomfortable position of having to tell you their illness. If they want you to know, they'll do so without your inquisitiveness;

15. Treat the cleaner with the same respect as the CEO. Nobody is impressed at how rude you can treat someone below you but people will notice if you treat them with respect;

16. If a person is speaking directly to you, staring at your phone is rude;

17. Never advise until you’re asked;

18. When meeting someone after a long time, unless they want to talk about it, don’t ask them their age and salary;

19. Mind your business unless anything involves you directly - just stay out of it;

20. Remove your sunglasses if you are talking to anyone in the street. It is a sign of respect. Moreso, eye contact is as important as your speech; and

21. Never talk about your riches in the midst of the poor. Similarly, don't talk about your children in the midst of the barren.

22. After reading a good message try to say "Thanks for the message".

HOW TO RESPECT YOURSEL...

 HOW TO RESPECT YOURSEL...

1...Stop looking for who is not looking for you.

2... Stop begging.

3...Stop saying more than necessary.

4...When people disrespect you, confront them immediately.

5...Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours.

6...Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don't reciprocate it.

7...Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy.

8... Stop entertaining gossip about other people.

9...Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is what comes out of your mouth.

10... Always look your best. Dress the way you should be addressed.

11... Be an achiever. Get busy with your goals

12...Respect your time.

13... Don't stay in a relationship where you don't feel respected and valued. Walk away.

14... Learn to spend money on yourself. That's how people will learn to spend on you.

15... Be scarce sometimes.

16...Be a giver more than a receiver.

17...Don't go where you are not invited. And when invited don't overstay your welcome.

18...Treat people exactly the way you want to be treated.

19... Except they owe you money, two call attempts is enough. If they value you they will call you back.

20...Be good at what you do.

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 The 12 Secrets the Rich Don’t Want You to Know"

We live in a world designed by the rich, for the rich. Everything from the media you consume to the advice you’re given is carefully curated to keep you trapped in the rat race while they soar higher. It’s time to pull back the curtain and uncover the truths the wealthy don’t want you to know. Brace yourself, because what you’re about to learn may shatter every illusion you’ve been sold.

The first secret is that hard work alone won’t make you rich. Yes, they encourage you to hustle and grind, but they know the truth: the path to wealth lies in leverage, not labor. While you’re breaking your back working overtime, they’re using other people’s time, money, and skills to build empires.

Second, they want you to believe money is evil. The more you associate wealth with greed and corruption, the less likely you are to pursue it unapologetically. Meanwhile, they know that money is simply a tool—a powerful one that can amplify your impact if used wisely.

Third, savings won’t make you rich. They push the “save and invest in a mutual fund” narrative, but they don’t follow it themselves. They invest in high-risk, high-reward opportunities: startups, real estate, stocks, and businesses that multiply their wealth exponentially.

Fourth, the school system is a trap. They fund educational systems that teach you to be obedient employees, not critical thinkers or risk-takers. You’re taught to work for money, while they learn to make money work for them.

Fifth, tax laws are written for the wealthy. They know the loopholes, the incentives, and the strategies to legally avoid taxes, while you’re stuck paying a significant chunk of your income. Wealthy people own assets, not salaries, and assets are taxed differently.

Sixth, debt is a weapon—but only if you know how to wield it. They want you to fear debt, but the rich use it as a tool to acquire more wealth. They leverage other people’s money (OPM) to buy assets that generate cash flow and pay off the debt themselves.

Seventh, your consumerism funds their lifestyle. Every time you buy a new gadget, trendy clothes, or overpriced coffee, you’re putting money directly into their pockets. Meanwhile, they’re investing in assets that appreciate over time.

Eighth, connections matter more than talent. They don’t want you to know that access to the right people will open more doors than any degree or skillset. They build exclusive networks that perpetuate their wealth and keep outsiders at bay.

Ninth, time is their most valuable asset. They don’t waste it on distractions or meaningless tasks. They hire people to do what they can’t or won’t do, freeing up their time to focus on wealth-building strategies.

Tenth, the stock market is rigged in their favor. While you’re hoping your portfolio grows steadily, they have insider information, access to high-frequency trading, and the capital to manipulate markets to their advantage.

Eleventh, failure is their greatest teacher. They embrace setbacks as learning experiences and take calculated risks without fear. You’ve been taught to play it safe, but the rich know that big rewards require bold moves.

Finally, they thrive on your ignorance. The less you know about money, investing, and business, the more they can exploit your labor, time, and consumer habits to enrich themselves.

So what’s the takeaway, men? Stop playing the game they’ve rigged against you. Educate yourself about money, learn to think like an investor, and prioritize ownership over consumption. Break free from the chains of mediocrity, and start building your own empire. It’s time to outsmart the system and claim the wealth and power they don’t want you to have.

10 USEFUL PRE MARITAL TIPS YOU NEED TO KNOW.

Here are some useful pre-marital tips to help build a strong foundation for a lasting relationship:

1. Open and Honest Communication: Discuss your values, expectations, and dreams openly. Talk about your finances, family goals, career aspirations, and personal boundaries.

2. Understand Each Other’s Financial Habits: Financial stress can impact a marriage. Talk about your individual approaches to money, budgeting, debt, savings, and spending habits.

3. Discuss Conflict Resolution Styles: Understand how each of you deals with disagreements. Do you communicate calmly, or do you need some time to cool off? Discussing how you’ll manage conflicts helps avoid escalations.

4. Establish Shared Goals and Values: It’s important to align on life goals, such as children, career plans, and living arrangements. Know what is important to both of you.

5. Talk About Family Dynamics: Understand the role your families will play in your life after marriage. Set boundaries and expectations about family involvement and how to handle conflicts with relatives.

6. Ensure Emotional and Physical Compatibility: Discuss intimacy, affection, and emotional support. It’s important to understand each other’s needs in this area and communicate openly about them.

7. Counseling or Premarital Education: Consider taking premarital counseling or education. A professional can help you address potential issues and teach important relationship skills.

8. Personal Space and Independence: While it’s crucial to bond, it’s also essential to maintain some level of personal space and independence. Discuss how you’ll balance togetherness and individual pursuits.

9. Prepare for Life Changes: Marriage brings changes—expect them. Talk about how you’ll adapt to new roles, responsibilities, and potential challenges.

10. Plan for Long-Term Commitment: Marriage is a long-term commitment, so it’s helpful to talk about your expectations for supporting each other through life’s ups and downs. Make sure you’re both ready for the responsibilities marriage brings.

These conversations and preparations can help reduce misunderstandings and create a more stable foundation for a successful marriage.

HOW TO BE ALWAYS HAPPY IN LIFE...

 HOW TO BE ALWAYS HAPPY IN LIFE...

Advice from Grandma

1. Always remember that there is nobody on this earth that does not have problems. You are not the only one that has problems.

2. Challenges is part of life. It is only a dead man that has no challenges.

3. There is no problem that has no solution. There are solutions to the pains you are passing through.

4. The way you picture yourself in your mind can affect your happiness. Picture yourself as a valuable and beautiful person. Avoid low self esteem and inferiority complex.

5. Do not mind about what people say about you. Some people are sadists. They say something just to make you feel sad.

6. Make friends with reasonable people who make you happy. Do not make friends with people who make jest of you or laugh at you over your challenges.

7. At your leisure time, keep yourself busy with your favorite hobbies like reading , learning, etc.

8. Do not allow anyone to intimidate you with money and material things. A poor man today can become rich tomorrow. Change is constant.

9. No matter what you are passing through today, do not give up. As long as there is life, there is hope. Never stop trying. Give it one more time.

10. Be very #prayerful. Pray without ceasing. Prayer is a catalyst that can speed up your blessings to come to you on time.

11. Be courageous to go for what you want. Life is all about risk. If you don't take a risk, you will not get the desires of your heart.